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Well, my mom is very judgmental and she refuses to let me to talk to my best friend. My best friend never influenced me to do anything. She doesn't like my friend because she thinks she's "weird", but little does she know, my friend has ALWAYS been there for me, even when I was depressed and through thick and thin situations. And I have all these "friends" now that talk about me behind my back and my best friend has never done that to me. At all. How can I get her to let me hang out with my best friend again?

We've been on and off for a while... At first, we were on and off, the next year, we dated for 7 months, and now, we've been on and off again. I broke up with her this time and she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. She told me to stop trying to be with her and just to relax and be happy. And I hate to say it, but I can't be happy like this. How can I get her back and let her know I'm serious this time?

Okay, so I got back together with my ex-girlfriend, but the thing is... She's visiting her ex girlfriend for a whole week. This is the same ex that she left me for, but she could care less and she's gonna visit her whether I want her to or not. What do I do? Do I just end it or do I have to just relax, because this is really freaking me out...

I'm trying my damned best to be the best girlfriend I can, but I feel as if I'm not doing enough... My girlfriend still has feelings for her ex and they still talk and like, weeks ago, she cheated on me with her and told me never to talk to her again. A few weeks later, she apologized to me, and as stupid as I was being at the time, I took her back. This is an ex she constantly goes on and on about and all she's been doing was saying "I'm in love with her... and nothing can change that." and other times she would say "I love you... I just love her more!" and all of this makes me feel terrible inside. I feel like ever since her ex showed up in the picture again, our whole relationship has been ****** up... And I wanna know... should I keep dealing with this? should I leave her until she gets her feelings sorted out or should I leave her for good?

Well everytime I get delivery pizza, I refrigerate it, and the next day, if I want to eat the pizza, I reheat it in the microwave but the crust and cheese and all the other stuff sorta feels weird.. So is there another way to reheat pizza, without the crust and the other things getting hard?

Sometimes when I put skinny jeans on, they feel extremely itchy and I don't know why because I think they're cleaned all the way, but no matter what or how much I was them, they're still itchy..

I have to wear a uniform to school too. My khakis and black pants are itchy, too. And this situation always happens with skinny jeans and my uniform pants for some reason.

Should I start using a different washing detergent or what?

Well.. let me see...

It happened a few years ago.. about 7 yrs ago.. I was only about 6..

I was messing with my hair comb and a comb tooth fell off ( the comb was pretty cheap if you tell me) but being my stupid self, (don't laugh please, because I'm scared of what might happen), it somehow got stuck in my ear.. like really deep in..

Now that I'm 13, it's really REALLY bothering me.. My hearing in my right ear is getting really sensitive and it just hurts.. I try EVERYTHING to get it out.. Not even hairpins could work! It'd just seem worse.. And I seem really nervous because I heard if stuff possibly gets stuck in your ear, you have to go to an E.R and I dont wanna do that..

What do I do? Please give me advice.. And I'm afraid if I tell my mom, she'll get extremely upset since I didn't tell her 7 yrs ago.. especially since she IS a nurse and could've removed it herself..

Well ever since he knew I was lesbian, I can honestly say he's been saying pretty rude things..

Since I can remember, last month, I was talking to him on the phone and I was asking for advice for what I should tell this girl I liked.. Then he just said out of nowhere,

"Why can't you just be straight?"

and I told him "I didn't want to because I don't have any type of thing for guys".. and he said "just pretend to like them, so you won't go to hell" and the conversation got awkward and silent..

I think a day later, he apologized for it, but I still didn't want to accept his apology because that was a little to extreme to say, especially if its your friend.. you get what I mean, right?

But next month, which is now and happened just yesterday, he mentioned being straight again, and I get this crap from a lot of other guys, and it gets annoying, but I don't think he gets that yet. I told him to quit and cut me some slack because I didn't wanna hear it.. at all.

And then he said "You can be straight you know.. people can change.." and i directly told him, "I just don't like guys at all.. ok?" and I still don't think he got the concept of that. Then he just said "Well if you don't turn straight, you're gonna grow old and alone." and I got offended from just that.

He's getting just as annoying as those arrogant guys that think they can turn anyone straight and it gets annoying. Should I confront him? because it doesn't really make sense to be like that.. I think he should just stop worrying about me and worry about himself

Well my friend Kenya is having a party. She's straight but she definitely invited me. When I told her I might come to the sleepover, too, this other girl, Mya, said "Don't you dare go to that sleepover".

I asked why. She said because she knows what I might do.. and she said if I come, she'll have to get my friend to uninvite some girls for some reason.

I don't see what's the big deal about me going. I act like any other girl there is. I'm not pervy and I don't do anything to anyone (or any girl at that).

I just can't really figure it out? Is it just ignorance?

My parents and grandparents are making the food, as well as my sister.

But they all suggest I help somehow, but I was going to anyway. They said to start with something that could be easier for me to cook and/or bake.

I told them I wanted to bake some chocolate chip cookies; no objections with that whatsoever.

The thing is.. I know how to bake, but I'm not the best at it and want to make the best cookies tomorrow.

So.. How can I bake the most perfect tasting cookies?

Just wondering..

I'm a virgin and a lesbian and just wanted to know in case I get in a situation of where I end up doing something with someone..

I started masturbated at 13. (I still am 13) But I wanted to know if it is normal for me to do all of this at my age.

What are the side effects for doing it exactly? Because I heard so many things like losing eyesight from doing it and things like that.

Well I have this guy in my class.

He asked me out before and I said nicely that I'm NOT interested then one day he found out that I was lesbian.

I don't know why but he keeps telling me I'm in denial and I'm straight and maybe I just don't like guys in a sexual or physical manner.

And to mention this, he keeps telling me this everyday! And it's getting VERY annoying!

How can I tell him that I'm lesbian to get all of this over with already? It's getting very tiring to me And my friends.

Help plz!!

Ok well I knew this friend for 2 1/2 years..She already knows I'm lesbian and is ok with it. We're close friends and she tells me everything and we joke around a lot. I started to like her around the time we became best friends.

I told her I liked her before and she didn't mind at all and nothing became awkward for either of us, but I think she just let it go because she didn't want to hurt my feelings.

But the thing is.. I can't control my feelings or bottle them up anymore..

How can I tell her I love her?

Well there's this girl I like named Katherine and I sometimes talk to her at school and for the past week, i started to like her.

Little did I know, my friend (whose a boy) likes her too. I didn't even know he did but now he found out I liked her after I told him and it turned out he did too.

Now he's mad and he's telling all my business and keeps yelling at me and telling me she's straight and telling me she keeps hitting on him. And now he's telling all of my business and it's getting embarrassing for me around school.. (It kinda hurts that he's doing this) I don't really care about these statements and I need to hear it from her.

Can you give me some advice?

I wanted to know:

Do I have to leave her alone and let him have her since he likes her so much? It's getting to the point where I should just give up and leave them be.

I have really oily skin and bad pimples and almost everyday, I see new types of acne on my face and I have a lot of acne scars.

I clean my face all of the time and yet I see no results, whatsoever =(

What should I do to clear my skin? I used everything!

On my bow, the rosin looks caked up o n my bow and the bow hair is literally sticking together. what can i do to clean it?

On my violin strings, there's some rosin on my strings, but it never got to the point of where it has build up, but i still want to get the strings cleaned.

I have the usual A's and B's but I'm also freaking out because I don't want C's, D's, and F's (my mom is super strict and so is my sister). And I'm not sure if I can keep up with both honors/advanced orchestra and school. And I really don't wanna drop out of my orchestra program.. but I know my education comes first. I have a few low B's in a couple of subjects and I wanna bring it up somehow.. (examples: social studies, math probably, and science.)

And in addition.. well.. I go to a middle school in Georgia in Clayton County so I have to pass each test (like the CRCT), writing test and such) and that's the only way I can go to 9th grade and right now I'm freaking out and I don't want to go to summer school and I DEFINITELY DON'T wanna be retained.

How can I pass the most important tests and get good grades in school while still keeping up with every other activity i do?