i went out with a girl for about 4 years and i loved her so much, and we broke up because of the mistake that i made. now i have a girl for about 2 years but still i can;t forget my ex. i still miss her, dream about her. but i luv my present girlfriend, but i can forget my ex. i still keep in touch with my ex through e-mail. must i stop keeping in touch with her? i still wanna be friends with my ex. oh.. i am confused
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hey, as long as u r in touch with her ull keep on loving her. so, stop contacting her. first itll be difficult for u. but ull be alright after sometime. Also, keep in mind that if ur present girlfriend found out that u still luv ur ex, shell jst freak out. othrwise if u think shes understanding, then talk to her about this. spend more time with her. be more romantic. luv her a lot. all the best.
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Guy it sounds as if you are still in love with your ex-girlfriend and it's perfectly normal for you to think of her and have feelings for her because she was in your life for so long. You asked a really good question Guy, but honey the question you should be asking yourself is: Am I still in love with my ex? Do I want another chance with my ex-girlfriend? What made the relationship go sour and split us apart? Will she be willing to have me back if she new my true feelings? Do I truly love my current girlfriend? If I don't love my girlfriend that I am currently seeing, Why not? Should I tell my current girlfriend the truth that I am still inlove with my ex and would like another chance? Is it fair to my current girlfriend to hide my true feelings that I have for my ex away from her? Guy if you ask yourself these very questions, but are honest about them all, then you should have your answer. Be honest with yourself and follow your heart. If your heart says to be with your ex then that's who you choose.Good Luck!
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Don't just cut the ties all together, hun.... you need to find out what your heart wants. Find some time to yourself, and I mean for a day or two, where you can think about your life and the direction it's going in. If you're still thinking about this woman this much, and you miss her, there is a chance you still love her. Do you? If you do, you need to work on your relationships... the girl you're with needs to know what's going on, and you need to decide what you want and go for it. The mistake you made... was it something that can be forgiven? If you keep in touch with your ex, obviously she still cares for you and has forgiven you enough to establish communication, which is a good thing. If you still love her, be with her. It sounds like you don't care about the girl you're with now nearly as much as your heart loves the other one. Go with what really matters!
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