hi i am a 14 year old freshman i have this friend that i like a lot and a while ago all her friends said she liked me so i asked her out and she said not now well later her friend told me it was because her parents would not let her until she was 16 wel now we are still 14 and r good friends but i still rly like her i thought i was over her but i am not and she now has has told me she likes me and we talk on aim A LOT but when its in person every thing is so awkwardanyways i just want to know ur advise anything will help conversation starters anything thx alot.
asoldierswife2006-08-30T16:17:06Z
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XXXX I think she feels more comfortable with you on AIM. Give her time. She'll open up more in public. Time will tell. XXXXXX
I raised a son, and a daughter, so I think I can give you good advise. First of all, if you like this girl, talk to your parents and see if a get together with all of you can be arranged. That would be helpful, because then the girls mother would get a chance to see what environment you live in, plus, there would be a chance for both parents(the girl's and yours)to communicate. It is very often that parents do not know whom their children deal with that causes them to be strict on their own children. Next, set an example. You are both 14 years old and it is a parents' duty and responsibility to make upstanding citizen out of our children. So abide by the rules--do all your homework and study for school. That will impress the other parents as well. We mom's do not want our girls to date a guy who does not want to get ahead in life and who thinks school is not for him. As a parent we do like the good guys. Lastly, make a deal with yourself that you can wait. Get to know the girl, try to get permission to take her to a movie or other fun event where you got the permission of both parents and then make sure you stick to the time you are supposed to bring her back. Again, we moms love the good and reliable guy. If you get your chance and do all that, then you truly have a chance. The rest will fall automatically in place as long as you don't try to rush things.
What does "going out" mean, anyway? Tell everyone you're "going out". Talk at school, talk on the phone, and let her parents see how responsible you are. Then maybe they'll let you see a movie or something. One step at a time.
well i had the same problem i liked this guy I asked him out he turned me down we talked alot on aol and every time i saw him i couldn't talk it was like the words wouldn't come out well now i thought i got over him but i haven't but i think what you need to do is if she likes you tell her on aol or in person to talk parents she could say you are a nice person and that she likes you alot and you wouln't do any thing to hurt her that should convice her parents
It is like me and my guy friend i like him and I asked him out but he is 15 and I am 13 so he said he doesn't know yet but I would talk to her about how pretty and nice she is to you just compliment her!!