My Boyfriend is on vacation .. i found a number and its from where hes at know... I asked about it he is so?
mad at me ... he wont pick up any of my calls and says im reduiclus . I have been trying to reach him since yesterday and all he does is ignore me !..WHy would he get mad at ME .? why get so mad if u have nothing to hide? .....
If he has nothing with this girl that he claims he does not KNOW! WHy get so pissed about it ..
I tried calling the girl and she has her phone off!
I dont want it to be over .. I mean i said some things to him yesterday but i love him !!what can i do !
curiositycat2006-09-06T08:36:04Z
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Take a deep breath and relax. Wait for him to come home, don't try to contact him-he knows how to get ahold of you. If he hasn't given you any reason to doubt him in the past, let it go. If he has, then perhaps you should be out of reach when he gets back. Either way, let it go for now. Do something for yourself-something you enjoy. When he gets back, deal with it as it comes.
Well, either wait at the airport to take him home and ask him then.
Or you can write him a letter disguised a bill. You know, with the clear envelopes that have a little adress thingy. Make up a company name, such as "Parker-Goodman Software, Inc." then once he opens it, It'll be a letter from you. Just have the first few lines be business-like, then it'll sort of transition into your letter. If he's smart enough to get it, and he cares abvout you, then he will respond.
I know it seems pointless but if he's going on vacation alone then it's suspicious..Why would he go to this particular place...why does he have his phone off...
Well, if he went with his family it's a little less suspicious...SOOOOO why not do something with his family? Why is he with this girl? It's very difficult, but the answer is staring you straight in the eye. You need to dump him after you find out whats going on. Unless if he's working with this girl to get you a car or something (very, very, unlikely) then the chances arew he doesn't want you anymore. Wait until he gets home. Leave him alone while he's on vacation, don't call him, IM him, e-mail him...
If he doesn't apologize when he gets home, then it's true that he doesn't want to be together anymore. You are going to have to dump him before he gets you. It'll save you a lot of shame and everybody will see that you don't take crap from guys.
Thats a ****** up situtation...Personally i think he is with the other girl...If he wasnt trying to hide anything there would be no reason for him to be upset with you, unless you did some digging to get the phone number...also is the girl vacationing in the same place as him...You may not want it to be over, but that may be best especially if there is a trust issue. Hope this helps
I went through this with an ex and if he is turning off his phone and calling you crazy-he is 100% guilty and I know this from experience! And if you take him back or keep telling yourself that you need him or want him, then he will do it again, I can almost promise you that! The world is full of people and you will find someone that will be true to you one day-just don't be in such a rush and don't settle for less than what you deserve. Drop him!!!!
your saying its the number of a girl, which is where is on vacation at right now? come on, isn't it obvious, your a pretty girl why waste your time with a jerk. he should have for one taken you on vacation with him. and I know by personal experience if hes not returning your calls and got mad at you for asking, it is almost a yes, have you tired to find the girls address or email? I am sorry this happened to you, good luck