What would you do?

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we have just come back from staying with a friend in her holiday home. It was myself, husband & 2 girls. My friend lives in her holiday home with her husband & 3 girls. When she stays with us, I run around been the good hostess, 3 meals a day + snacks & spend time interracting.
This is the 1st time we have stayed with them, we arrived on Friday & stayed till today (sunday), during that time, she gave us 1 meal, which wasn't even what I do for a snack & she just wanted to sit in the pub all day & night getting drunk. She wants to come & stay with us again in 3 weeks, but after this week end, I'm reluctant but don't know what to say, what would you do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would need a break from this person and would tell them something has come up and you regretfully have to say this is not a good time.  Do not be surprised if she insistantly ask again because you sound like a wonderful hostess.  Do not allow yourself and your family to be used as a hotel.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her you're all tied up with school (or otherwise use the girls for an excuse) and this is not a good time. Don't let her stay, ever, no matter what.

LX V · Answer

Tell her that you just don't have the room or will be busy this weekend or some other excuse and offer to make a reservation at a motel for her.

Anonymous · Answer

Very simple screen your calls do you have caller id? If so ignore her calls and don't visit her until she takes the hint.

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