I hate my sister in law. She has hated me from day one I married her brother. I have been with my husband for 16 years and married 13 of the years.
She bad mouths me all the time treats me real bad at family gatherings. We have had verbal arguments and to know avail. I am now just not going to go to anymore functions.
My husband has spoken to her and nothing helps. I am soon going to tell her that she is no longer welcome in my home. I have a sister in law from Hell.
r1114@sbcglobal.net2007-05-01T18:15:56Z
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we all do .but if you quit going to family gathering,s you will miss out on the fun.i would dress better than her.if she said any thing i would say ,did you take your pill today
Hi their I know exactly how you feel. I am going to something similar to what your going through with your sister in law. My sister in law is just the devil she has done so many things to my brother to my family including my parents and sisters. She used to be my best friend even her sister used to be my best friend but I had to close the doors on them totally and my sister husband had to do it as well because he don't want anyone adultery person at the house. So we all had to take action for it before she keeps destroying us. I say girl that you should think about doing the same trust me it feels good cause all the pain and suffering goes away. I say for now I will not let her at the house maybe down the line if my brothers forgives her and if she intend to change in which we all know that she won't then I'm going to step up and forgive myself and then forgive her. Cause if God did forgave us for our sins and had die for us at the cross who are we not to forgive but for now I have to have some space cause if I don't have it I will confront her and brake her in to million of pieces and I pretty much don't want to be the evil person that i used to be and I have children that I don't want to teach them the wrong things in life so I am trying to avoid things from happening and this is the smarter way of doing things.
Girl think first on what your going to do if this is what you want and if this is going to make all of you happy and feel better then you go through with it and stop letting her get in between you and keep destroying you you don't deserve it good luck
Sympathy goes out to you. I had three Sister-in-Laws and they treated me so bad. I was never included, no matter how hard I tried. They even excluded my Sweet Children. My Sweet Mother-in-Law noticed how they acted and always gave me the support and structure. When she would go visit them, they would be so mean to her. Well my story ends up , with the meanest , being dead. So now I have two left. The other one, her husband died too, so now we never see or hear from her. I have one left and I am trying to endure her and she has no one left in her pack. If your Mother-in-Law and Father-in-Law are good to you, don't drop out of the Family Functions. If you drop out, then the Sister-in-Law has won. She wants to make you drop out. Don't cater to her. Stand firm and be strong. Ask God to protect you from her. Put on your shield and armor. Let her know that she will not win.
If anyone should tell her to that she is no longer welcomed in your home, is your husband..It is his sister and it might have a better impact if he does it. Also if you did it would make it worse with her. If I was you , I would ignore her and not even acknowlege that she is in your space. She will get tired of you ignoring her. Besides be the better person and don't stoop to her level.. Good luck
I know you probably have been mistreated by her but what's worse is stooping down to her level. When she makes a remark about you simply ignore her, if she is rude make a tactful response that makes her look like the fool and you the hero. People like that usually gets what coming to them. I imagine I would tell her she is acting like a woman who is interested in her own brother. Of course she would rebut that then seriously I would ask her if that is not the case if she love him she would want to see him happy and not try to dislike you.