Who hates their sister-in-laws?

Well I only have 2, one of which I greatly dislike. She is 35 or so and married to my husband's oldest brother. Now we are young and still in love so she shows obvious dislike there, and I have 3 kids and still look great, she had one and blew up like a whale. So there is a jealousy factor with her. She tries to get her kicks by talking about how downtrodden we are and wishes they could do more to help us. Well this pisses me off because one we never asked for their handouts and secondly we may be in a lower income bracket but we manage and for being 25 with 3 kids I think we do pretty damn well. The thing I think that bugs me the most is that she thinks that because she has no emotional connection to her child that no one should and gets visibly disgusted when I cuddle my kids or hug & kiss them, if my children go to hug her or their uncle or cousin she gently pushes them aside and reminds them that they are not a "huggy" family... I am sorry but WTF? I worked very hard to show my kids compassion and love and to help them see that family is all you got when it comes down to it, and here she is pushing them away telling basically that they are not good enough. Luckily, I am not in earshot when she does talk bad about us, because I would have a few choice words to say. She is consumed in self pity, jealousy and has the most unmotherly nature I have seen in a woman, but at least she has enough intelligence to shut her trap when we all are forced to visit each other. I really feel bad for my brother in law, because he is a good guy and deserves so much better!! Luckily my other SIL is amazing, she is down to earth and truly a beautiful person inside and out!

My sisinlaw hates ME!! She has been on a hate campaign for YEARS and has convinced herself that I am evil and has even gone so far as to call me the devil but that I pretend to be an angel. She has convinced herself that I have "stolen her brother away" from her and driven everyone else to hate her and even turned her own kids against her. In TRUTHI have done none of these things, any I'll feeling towards her has been of her own doing with no help from me....she lies, gossips and bitches, backstage, creates drama and then displaces the blame onto me and truly believes she has done nothing when anyone confronts her. I am not the only one she does this too she has now turned on her own sisters and doors the same to all her friends....one small mercy to know i m not alone!!! But hate her? No I can't.......oh wait...haha that's the RIGHT answer but the TRUE answer is "...with a vengeance!! She has hurt me WAY too many times to be forgiven or allowed back in my life!!"

Hi their I know exactly how you feel. I am going to something similar to what your going through with your sister in law. My sister in law is just the devil she has done so many things to my brother to my family including my parents and sisters. She used to be my best friend even her sister used to be my best friend but I had to close the doors on them totally and my sister husband had to do it as well because he don't want anyone adultery person at the house. So we all had to take action for it before she keeps destroying us. I say girl that you should think about doing the same trust me it feels good cause all the pain and suffering goes away. I say for now I will not let her at the house maybe down the line if my brothers forgives her and if she intend to change in which we all know that she won't then I'm going to step up and forgive myself and then forgive her. Cause if God did forgave us for our sins and had die for us at the cross who are we not to forgive but for now I have to have some space cause if I don't have it I will confront her and brake her in to million of pieces and I pretty much don't want to be the evil person that i used to be and I have children that I don't want to teach them the wrong things in life so I am trying to avoid things from happening and this is the smarter way of doing things. Girl think first on what your going to do if this is what you want and if this is going to make all of you happy and feel better then you go through with it and stop letting her get in between you and keep destroying you you don't deserve it good luck

Where do I start???

Okay, let's start with her husband (who hasn't worked in two years), all he can do is play video games and his guitar. And did I mention her mother babysits everyday while her husband is home from work. And my mother-in-law has only watched my kids for me about six times in four years. Try taking a four-year-old boy with you to the OB/GYN. Now, that's trickey.

My SIL has got a PhD but had to move in with her mother because they got in financial trouble. All that smarts and she has to go back home.

Did I mention she's over 100 lbs overweight? And even though I make low cal food, she will never eat when she comes to my house because she's on a diet (for the last 7 years) but hasn't lost any weight.

But she hasn't been invited to my house since the last time she was here she was talking about me while she was here. And she didn't even come to see my second baby when he was born.

Seems it's too much of a hassle for them to come to visit us for a Sunday dinner. They don't like the obligation. Did I mention they live 3 miles down the road?

She is a lazy fat pig!!!!

Thanks so much. I feel so much better!

I have a lying, hateful, greedy, cheating, manipulative skanky, drunken, drug addicted witch of a sister in law. If I have nothing to do with her again, I will be extremely happy. I don't really hate her so much as she totally disgusts me. She cheated everyone in the family out of their inheritance and refuses to give items that were bequeathed to family members to the recipients. She puts down and judges how others live while sleeping with every man she comes in contact with in her drunken, drugged up state. My one consolation is one day her antics will catch up to her and she will need us because you can't live they way she does forever. Will we be there for her? Depends on how long it takes me to stop laughing. Sound cruel? I have seen the pain she's caused others and I DO believe in karma.

I never hated my ex sister-in-law but never really cared for her. She had always thought that she was better than me and I was not good enough for her brother. She and her husband got divorced and I really did not care that much that they were getting divorced. After they were divorced is when I found out that her ex was bisexual and I wanted to jump up and down and start laughing from it. She had always thought that her s*** didn't stink. I am now divorced from her brother and thank God they want nothing to do with me.

I think you got your best answer and smile from quasi!!! I laughed so hard I woke up my son!!

Anyway--I used to have a horrible sister in law--I divorced her brother, and between the both of them, the fastest 300lbs I could ever lose!!!

Good luck!

Each time there's a hurricane in Florida I light one candle for the citizens of that state and another in the hopes mine gets washed out to sea.

Quasimodo that it too funny...all sister relationships have issues, just work through it, be there for your husband's sake....the saga will continue I'm sure...

I got a good one. my sister in law is 15 years older than me and somehow found herself living alone in new hampshire and about to lose her apartment and car. she called begging to let us move in with her and i said ok. 2 weeks after she moved in, we moved from N.C. to flordia and all she did was ***** the whole way down (mind you she paid for nothing) ate like a pig (shes a big lady) and yelled at my hubby. after two months of fighting between her and i, i kicked her to the curb. you only have to like your husband in my mind, so hate em up!!!