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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 day ago

Why does my husband smack me?

My husband slaps me all the time. Never on my face. Today I kept asking him for help because I thought I put the remote in the washing machine with my sheets and it was too heavy for me to pick up. He got mad that I kept asking him for help and smacked me on my back when he saw me. It hurts and I always retaliate by hitting him back. Why does he do this?

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  • Anonymous
    8 hours ago

    Introduce into your sexual activity, that way at least you'll begin to enjoy it.

  • 15 hours ago

    "....I always retaliate by hitting him back. Why does he do this?"... " Why do you BOTH think hitting each other is a good way to communicate?

  • Anonymous
    1 day ago

    He enjoys you retaliating, something he is going to report in order to get you arrested.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 day ago

    You are living with a violent abuser and he continues because you let him and continue to stay with him. If you don't leave, it will escalate and he could even kill you. Hitting him back??? Are you crazy? This will only inflame him and you could really be maimed or killed.You both should be in therapy, separately. Do not stay with him, I don't care what excuse you give.  

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  • T J
    Lv 7
    1 day ago

    Why are you still with him?

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 day ago

    cause hes mean, i would dump him and tell the police what hes doing

  • Anonymous
    1 day ago

    Are you seriously this empty headed?  You are being abused if you are being hit in any way on any part of your body.  Its not okay.  You hitting him back is just continuing to reinforce his nasty behavior.  Why would you put up with abuse from any man?   Abusive people get worse over time...its not love.  If this is at all a real situation (and not some trolling joke), you need to make a plan to leave or get into counseling immediately.  Its not a good marriage if your spouse is continually physically abusive and not willing to stop.

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