ladies - Lights on or off?

r u ashamed of your body? is it a absolute must the lights stay on or off?

Anonymous2007-06-11T14:20:29Z

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women are so sensitive...

funkyfree42007-06-11T18:38:34Z

Well, I like a little light. Not as much as a lamp, maybe a night light or a hall light. I want to see, I want him to see, but not everything hanging out in the bright light. Yeah, and it's because I'm ashamed of my body. Weird huh?

Steven's Love2007-06-11T14:24:26Z

When we were first together the lights had to be off at all times. I didn't want him to see how hideous I was. The longer we were together the better I felt about my body, the more and more we left the light on. Now we have a "mood" light that we turn on. It helps me feel comfortable with the light and we are able to look at each other.

Anonymous2007-06-11T14:22:27Z

It us to always be lights off. But, then I realized that this is my body and I'm going to have it for the rest of my life, so I might as well learn to live with it. So now it's lights on.

Nas2007-06-11T14:21:13Z

Leave the lights off

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