ladies - Lights on or off?

women are so sensitive...

Well, I like a little light. Not as much as a lamp, maybe a night light or a hall light. I want to see, I want him to see, but not everything hanging out in the bright light. Yeah, and it's because I'm ashamed of my body. Weird huh?

When we were first together the lights had to be off at all times. I didn't want him to see how hideous I was. The longer we were together the better I felt about my body, the more and more we left the light on. Now we have a "mood" light that we turn on. It helps me feel comfortable with the light and we are able to look at each other.

It us to always be lights off. But, then I realized that this is my body and I'm going to have it for the rest of my life, so I might as well learn to live with it. So now it's lights on.

Leave the lights off

Depends on how comfortable I am with the guy. But the first time I prefer the lights off.

On, if the lights are off you cant see the goods and the action!

I like them on 1/2 the time and off 1/2 the time. Gotta mix it up a little.

Depends on you and who you are...how much you know each other, how comfortable you feel. If you just met each other, I would recommend a darker atmosphere that will lighten up the with time...If you have always liked the darkness because you do not feel very comfy, go ahead! There are no rules for sex except your own

i prefer that the lights stay off but things do happen in the day light!!

Lights on!