I consider them as god , but today i have seen people of my age ( teenagers ) do not respect them & fight with them , not treating them well , with out morals ! what do you think ? is it true what i think about them ! One who does not have one of them are so unhappy at that point ! i have many friends who dose not have mother or father & those people feel really sad about this ! how dose on feel when one lose , one of them !
Harish Jharia2007-08-13T09:02:05Z
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I have not seen God… I have a remote perception about His entity… Nevertheless; I have seen my parents for my entire early life… now they are no more… I have their photographs and videos… I use to watch all those imageries and console myself… and ask myself to feel their presence out of the memories left by them… Their larger than life persona… their influence on my physical and psychological entity… In fact on my very existence… what I speak… what I write… how I look… Whenever somebody notices and recognises me in the crowd… I do recollect the image and profile of my mom… I feel indebted to the intellect of my dad and the compassion of my mom a part of which I inherited from them… I even remember mom’s scolding and dad’s slaps across my face and the mistakes and the blunders I committed… and the fact that in those days I did not accept my shortcomings for which they had to take the extreme steps… I also remember my dad sitting in his study chair holding his head in his palms, all alone in his study after awarding me a punishment … I cannot forget the relentless flow of tears rolling down the cheeks of my mom following her outburst on me… I loved every thing of my parents… I only repent that I should have had this feeling when they were alive in flesh and blood and were moving around…
I loved my parents. I didn't put them up there with God, but I loved them. There was a lot of conflict in my family, especially between my mother and myself. My father and I were close. Before my mother died, she told me she loved me and for the first time, I truly believed her because of the WAY she said it. All I have to say to those who still have their parents is... If there is any conflict at all between you and one or both of your parents, please take care of it now, while you still have a chance to. I miss my parents. I miss my mom a lot, and wish we could have had more time together. I understand her better now. I think about some of the stories she told me of her childhood , some pretty sad, and I know that it played a big part in her problems with being a mother and a wife. God Bless all.
After all it is because of all the trouble they took that we are here in this world, alive and kicking! Is it not then our responsibilty to show them a modicum of respect, regard and love?