scintillantone14
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Hmm..well no offense, but you may be too much of a homebody for the Gemini female's taste. Not to say that she doesn't enjoy a quiet evening in from time to time, especially if it breaks up the monotony if she's a party animal which, let's face it, a lot of Geminis are! It's just that Geminis really are social animals, sort of like their Sagi opposites. They enjoy a good social gathering either at a hip new art gallery, a hot new lounge or the best restaurant in town. It's kinda hard to keep up with them and you might feel like they are all over the place, but when they focus their attention on you, you'll literally feel like the only person in the room, which is one hell of a feeling!
The fundamental difference between you guys is that Geminis value variety, spontaneity and freedom above all else, and Cancers value more of the stable, solid, routine-like creature comforts of home. If you really are into this Gemini cutie, try doing something *she* likes to do and show off your adventurous side. Engage her in conversation (they live for small-talk), be yourself (they can see right through phonies!) and show her that you have a sense of humor! Women adore men who can make them laugh and this is especially true for Gemini gals. Cancers can be surprisingly wild and fun when they just let their hair down! Loosen up a bit! :)
Parker232
Learn to respect yourself if you already don't. You do this by doing respectable things which make you feel like a dependable, trustworthy, hardworking, and worthwhile, deserving person. From my experience, I've already had 3 gemini guys who were very very attracted to me...not jsut for my looks either but for my passionate side! (being a cancer) I'm not sure if it's a good relationship, but I say give it a try. Gemini loves how you laugh at all their jokes. Remember their sign is the sign of communication and clever, playful wit! I say just be yourself and Gemini will most liekly enjoy being with a Cancer. Just be sure you respect yourself and have high-self esteem or else you'll just feel inhibited and shy and then they will probably just consider you a bore. But that's only cuz you feel shy. Just work on the self-esteem if you do by doing like I said above (following thru with ur responsibilties) and you should be just fine, methinks.
Anonymous
In a verbal disagreement that spins out of control, the Cancer would win hands down. Gemini men tend to create conflict, but do not know how to resolve the issue especially if it involves talking about it and if they created the issue. Yes, Geminis are extremely communicative and intelligent in various areas in general, but they do not know how to handle themselves in an argument. In fact, it won't really lead to an argument because you can not argue with yourself. Gemini men do not like to argue, at least none of the ones I know and I know plenty! They usually will shut down and won't say anything and may even leave the room. But if you actually found one to get to that point, yes, the Cancer would win.
Anonymous
Be free-sprited and very adventurous. Suggest doing things that are out of the ordinary. Like playing tennis in the rain! Or eating really good hotdogs under and overpass. Just really random but creative things!
Anonymous
I agree with tashi, be fun, adventureous, and be different than the crowd and interesting.