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? asked in Entertainment & MusicHoroscopes · 9 years ago

Cancer male vs Capricorn male... For Gemini female?

Im a Gemini woman dating/ talking to two guys. The cancer male seems to like me but is taking things really slow. Hes also 10 years older, yet seems to be with his friends a lot . But doesn't seem to have a lot of time for me. He's very respectful and sweet but on the flip side has a lot of friends that are girls. Not really sure what he wants from me. Because right when I give up bam there he is giving me attention again. Really confused. He used to be a lot more attentive and care slot more when I didn't care. What should I do??

The second guy I'm seeing is super sweet and attentive. He's a Capricorn and 4 years older than me. The only thing is I think he's going too fast. He texts me a lot everyday starting each day with s good morning and ending every night with a goodnight. He's also calling me babe n stuff .

So the question ... Am I wasting time with the cancer guy? Is he still wanting me or what. He did say he was going through a lot but yet he's always with his friends. Or should I open up more to Capricorn guy and forget cancer guy. Which is the better match?

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  • 9 years ago
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    You will always wonder if you made the right choice. Choose with your heart and then close your eyes and go for it. This is the path of Gemini, to weigh the choices and then to choose. I have a tendency from my experience to always expect the Capricorn to judge me somewhat openly and honestly, if mostly wrongly, and the Cancer to nurture me while avoiding conflict. Both ways have their drawbacks and I prefer Cancer at this time. It might be good for you to take the time to get to know the Cap. Be aware of his tendency to take control. He will want you to be totally together in public and a tiger in the bedroom. The Cancer sometimes just wants loving relationships and one isn't enough, that, is they want a large circle of friends and family, but they are very loyal generally.

  • 9 years ago

    Open more to the Cancer because the Capricorn is taking things way too fast, and that's not good because the Capricorn will most likely will want you to be his girl in like a week then you are not ready. Capricorn will take things fast , but in the other side Cancer looks like he will wait for you no matter what and I think I heard in a site that Cancer is loyal. Cancer is sweet, caring , intuitive I would pick him. But, if that is its your choice if you want Capricorn.... He's careful, , Hardworking and reversed...

    Source(s): Gemini out
  • 9 years ago

    If you gave us better aspects of their charts (Moon, Venus, and Mars) that would help a lot more..Taking things slowly is a good thing! You want a man that takes it slow, it implies maturity and realism..remember, age is nothing but a number if true love is involved.You should really quiet your mind and listen to your heart(hard to do if you're a Gemini, i know).The fact that the Capricorn guy is taking things fast is something that does not give me a good feeling.Capricorns, as well as Cancerians, are known to be cautious in everything, especially love. They aren't known to be too affectionate, unless they are really mature.Sounds like this Capricorn is more in lust than in love..

    My advice would be to be very chilled and patient..i am leaning more in favor towards the Cancer for the reasons named above, but time will ultimately reveal the truth.

  • 9 years ago

    You should go for the Capricorn guy. He seems really into you and besides, it's better to get someone to slow down than to pick up in my opinion because atleast he's letting you know he really wants you. Plus, the Cancer guy is ten years older than you. That's too old. 4 years apart in age is perfect to me.

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  • 9 years ago

    Cancer are shy,it takes real long b4 he takes the relationship to another LV

    For Caps,they are tough & knows what it takes to win your LOVE

    in this battle,Caps probably will win

    but if you give time to Cancer,i'm sure cancer will be more loving & caring

    Source(s): Source ? no need source, just type what you think
  • Tom K
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    Being a Gemini, you may need one of each. Not an entirely bad prospect.

  • 9 years ago

    Cancers are real. Caps are fake.

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