I am married...and have been having an on line Dom/sub relationship....?
with another married man. We both have no intention of ever meeting in real life, and we do not want to ever leave our spouses..am I so terribly wrong?
with another married man. We both have no intention of ever meeting in real life, and we do not want to ever leave our spouses..am I so terribly wrong?
OhWell
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It would be a big deal if your husband knew about it. Just get rid of him.
Radd28
Yes, It's a form of cheating because if that is what turns you on then you should be sharing that with your husband.
You are sharing a part of your life with another man. You are giving another man a part of your life that you aren't giving your husband.
How could that not be cheating?
Hello?
You wouldn't have even asked the question if you weren't feeling guilty about it.
The thing is you are feeling quilt for a reason.
I don't know your husband but I don't think he deserves that.
Here is what you have to ask yourself, How would you feel if he were doing the same thing to you behind your back and then you found out?
pnthr63
Yes and No. You have to feel some regret because your asking this question. But yet you say all the things we want to here. No leaving your spouse and never want to leave. That's good and all. Just make sure you husband and his wife never find out because like I always say, having opposite sex friends while being married never works out. I'm happy you have someone to talk too, but don't you think your husband should be that person.
Good Luck either way..
inquisitive..........
Is it wrong you ask? Well maybe, but maybe not. Here is why:
If your husband and you have some sort of communication problem when you are in the bedroom, this online relationship could actually improve your at home bedroom life. With further experience in addressing the likes and dislikes with someone you don't know and does not really care about you, you may become less inhibited with your husband. If however, you do not lack self-confidence and communication skills with your husband now, get rid of the online guy and act out your sexual fantasies with your husband. He would probably appreciate that.
?Jaileen?
The Golden Rule: Do on to others as you want done to yourself!
If you don't mind your husband doing the same thing, then I guess it's ok in your mind, so if it's ok with you, let him know what's going on, after all if it's nothing bad, why keep it a secret???