I am married...and have been having an on line Dom/sub relationship....?

It would be a big deal if your husband knew about it. Just get rid of him.

Yes, It's a form of cheating because if that is what turns you on then you should be sharing that with your husband.

You are sharing a part of your life with another man. You are giving another man a part of your life that you aren't giving your husband.

How could that not be cheating?

Hello?

You wouldn't have even asked the question if you weren't feeling guilty about it.

The thing is you are feeling quilt for a reason.

I don't know your husband but I don't think he deserves that.

Here is what you have to ask yourself, How would you feel if he were doing the same thing to you behind your back and then you found out?

Yes and No. You have to feel some regret because your asking this question. But yet you say all the things we want to here. No leaving your spouse and never want to leave. That's good and all. Just make sure you husband and his wife never find out because like I always say, having opposite sex friends while being married never works out. I'm happy you have someone to talk too, but don't you think your husband should be that person.

Good Luck either way..

Is it wrong you ask? Well maybe, but maybe not. Here is why:

If your husband and you have some sort of communication problem when you are in the bedroom, this online relationship could actually improve your at home bedroom life. With further experience in addressing the likes and dislikes with someone you don't know and does not really care about you, you may become less inhibited with your husband. If however, you do not lack self-confidence and communication skills with your husband now, get rid of the online guy and act out your sexual fantasies with your husband. He would probably appreciate that.

The Golden Rule: Do on to others as you want done to yourself!

If you don't mind your husband doing the same thing, then I guess it's ok in your mind, so if it's ok with you, let him know what's going on, after all if it's nothing bad, why keep it a secret???

Your certainly not right (with this behavior). You have not cheated physically, but if your husband found out this could lead to a divorce. I know if I were him I would be hurt very badly and would not believe that you had never met this man, no matter what you said. Figure out which means more to you and do away with one of them.

If you're looking for validation or to feel like a better person, you won't get it here. How would your husband feel if he knew, and how would you feel if he did this behind your back? Yes you are terribly wrong.

i don't think that you are wrong to an extent but you should end it. If you honestly love your husband you shouldn't want anybody else in your life

y to do this thing if u feel thast its wrong..??..

ur chatting with thsi guy and plus there is nothing wrong going on then y is it bothering u?? think anout it!!

and if ur hubby finds out do u think he is going to belive u telling him that he is just a frnd and u hav no feelings for him!! do u think he is going to belive u??..i dont think any hubby can!!

put urself in his shoes..if he is doing something like this behind ur back hw would u feel!!!

and plus i also agree to that guy saying ..'' I'm happy you have someone to talk too, but don't you think your husband should be that person.''....so think about this!!!!

and if u knw that ur not doing anything wrong then u should tell ur hubby about this and c wat he says!!!!

Yes. You should not be having that kind of relationship with anyone else, even online, if you are committed.

How would you feel if he was doing that to you?