Why do I feel weird about this?

I was just outside talking to a neighbor for a minute, and a new neighbor's kids started asking me all kinds of questions. (You know how kids are.) Anyhow, one of their questions was "Where's your daddy?" And I answered, "He's in Heaven." Being an atheist, I don't believe that, but I figured chances are these kids have been taught about 'God' and it'd be easier to just say that. But, why do I feel weird about it?

Thanks for your thoughts :)

2008-04-18T15:16:28Z

(((Pangel and Donna)))

2008-04-18T15:27:05Z

(((Kerilyn!!)))

How are you, friend??

Prof Fruitcake2008-04-18T15:13:30Z

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You could have just said he passed away. Kids understand that.

Purdey EP2008-04-19T02:05:04Z

I'm guessing that you don't really believe that and being an honest person ( at least you seem that way to me) it bothered you to not tell the truth about yourself. However, you probably did the smart thing--who knows if your new neighbors are religious nuts who would hound you night and day.

Anonymous2008-04-18T23:32:57Z

Yeah, you let us down. Dammit.
Nah, it's alright. I've kinda done things like that before. Unfortunately, religious people can't handle the truth so you have to be gentle and lie to them. It sucks, but whatever.

Kerilyn2008-04-18T22:23:30Z

I do not blame you for feeling weird...
that is a very weird thing for a child to say...

but then it makes me wonder where the question really came from...

((Zilla)
pssst your only human ya know!!!

De Rerum Natura2008-04-18T22:16:57Z

you've made a decision to be a little hypocritical and speak in defiance to your privately held beliefs in the interest of simplicity and brevity.

i'm not sure what i would have done in the same situation but i can understand why you did what you did.

don't feel badly about it.

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