After the case from Austria where the father kept his daughter locked up for 24 years and fathered 7 children with her, I did a little research and found that father/daughter incest is far more prevalent than it seems. Most cases never make it to the police (and therefore stay out of the news) but shrinks are dealing with rampant damage because of it. So my question to fathers is: 1) Have you never had any feelings like this? 2) Had them but rejected them on moral grounds? 3) Rejected them on purely legal grounds? 4) Done it anyway?
Were you more afraid of jail than hell?
2008-05-10T08:05:38Z
It was naive of me to expect anyone to answer in the affirmative in an open forum...perhaps for those people it is a question to be considered rather than actually answered. Anyone who wishes to contact me privately about the matter may do so. All responses will be treated with respect and kept in private.
Paradox2008-05-10T05:43:31Z
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It is legal taboo more than anything else. We all came from incest anyway. Think about it. Are actual families legal things or natural things? They're legal. Somebody decided that they would mate, produce offspring, keep the offspring, name the offspring in order to keep track of them, and eventually colonize to the point where last names were necessary. Otherwise, there is really nothing wrong with it, even if you are of a Christian denomination, which I am not.
The taboos on incest are relatively recent in the civilized world. It wasn't thought of as a problem just a few hundred years ago. Eleanor was a close relative of FDR, a cousin or second cousin, I believe. Many of the signers of the Declaration of Independence married their cousins.
The purpose of the taboo is, as pointed out earlier, because of the tendency to birth defects.
The Rape aspect of it is another issue as well. Having never been raped, I can't really figure out whether it is worse to have no idea who the perpetrator was, or if it was someone within the family, perhaps someone who is otherwise kind and caring. Perhaps they are equally damaging, but just different. I don't know.
As far as personal experience, I wasn't raised with family of the opposite sex and have no children of my own, and my siblings' children have always lived in other states. I have no experience with even the opportunity for such feelings. I can't imagine having them, though.
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Your secondary question is asking us men (as fathers) if we have ever committed rape/incest? How many people do you think are going to answer in the affirmative? As far as my social thoughts on it go...I think in such cases, the perp should be castrated and have his cheek branded for all to see! EVEN in the case of mental illness! After one or two brandings (and national news coverage) this type of B/S would suddenly become unappealing to those committing it.
For those kids that would lie to the police and courts, there should be some time of physical pain also, such as being publically whipped.