what will i do? it's so hard for me to forget the bad, past happening in my life..?

it's so hard for me to forget the bad thing that my schoolmate did to me..it was like last month ago he did, but still i cannot forget..he did teased and embarassed me in other people..it makes me so sick and down!..i am always fearing that if we may meet again he will do that again..and he appeared in my dreams, it's like we saw each other and i was like going crazy trying to hide from him!..i always think of that, i cannot avoid it..it's really hard to forget the pain i felt from him emotionally..

Soul T2008-05-18T04:11:28Z

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Time will soften all negative vibes and this act of unloving from him is his acting out of his inability to love himself ...your going to be ok it is him that I worry about.....your life will be blessed with beauty and love don't allow his dysfunction to permeate your being....

gremlin2008-05-18T03:38:41Z

Things can happen that will embarrass and discourage you. What you have experienced certainly won't be the last so long as you live.

What you can do is forget about things over which you may not have control of. What's really important is how you deal with your reaction to the things that happen around you. If you can control how you think and feel, you'll become a strong person. Cheers!

Neil M2008-05-18T03:39:44Z

Your schoolmate is a dog. Just remember that you are better than him because you were embarrassed. Because of that you are better than him. As for being sick and down, it only means you didn't quite understand the 1st dream. When you meet him again you will only say hi, or nod. This will mean your worries are over.

Ceriana2008-05-18T05:03:17Z

Darling, life has its ups and downs. Life is a bowl of salt and sugar but we sometimes have the chance to decide how many cups of sugar or salt to add. Just fill the rest of your life with sugar. Move on. People will forget. OR get even!!!

Anonymous2008-05-18T03:37:03Z

Well, the best cure for situations like these is TIME.

TIME is the best healer. With more time, you'll forget all the unwanted feeling you have when you see or think of him. just wait.

You can spend more time on other things like play a sport, or hang out with your family and friends more.

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