can I change my golden blonde hair to lighter blonde without bleach?

I bleached my dark brown hair to golden blonde mnths ago...can I turn it to a lighter blonde with less golden tones or eliminating the golden tones all together without bleach? I was suggested to use hair dye for woman of color, its a bit harsh but not as bad as bleach and its effective?!?

SaraShootEmUp2008-11-29T07:04:38Z

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You can try a toner.
use it with a 20 volume developer.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/hair-toner/CLAIRL17,default,pd.html
http://www.sallybeauty.com/Creme-Developer/SLNCAR60,default,pd.html?cgid=Hair

Shamrock2008-11-29T06:59:50Z

To remove the golden color, just dye over it with a slightly greyer color. No, not old lady grey, but just a little less aturated. Your hair might look a little funky, but without bleach that may be all you can do.