Was i wrong, and if I am why did it feel so right.?
Ok, So 1 year ago i told my best friend that is a guy that i was in love with him, and he also told me he felt the same way. But he live in another state due to his job. While away he got a girlfriend and they have been together for about a year as well. Well he came home for vacation for the holidays and did not bring her. So we meet up knowing that we both felt the same way about each other and had drinks and talked finally we went home with each other and made love to each other it was like fireworks for both of us. Did i do the worst thing ever? I dont regret it but i need a little in site
Anonymous2008-12-23T06:49:00Z
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How could that have possibly been right? Lets say you and this bloke get together and some new girl enters the picture and they find out they are so in love together...if they had sex because it was so great to be in love and the sex meant so much...would you mind?
Personally i think what you did is pretty horrible and have had it done to me and i can tell you...it felt absolutely awful. (They didnt love each other, she was just a slut and he was my friend at the time who hadn't got his rocks off for half a year).
If you think it's right to do that to someone then i hope it happens to you...see how ''right'' it feels then.
To the person who said ''it'll just be your dirty little secret''...i pray i never meet you or anyone like you, your kind make this world a worse place to live in.
Go ahead btw...give me a bad rating, afterall, unless people completely agree and say ''omg yeah, that was amazing, im so happy for you'', your not going to like it.
You may not have don anything wrong, but this co-called "best friend" used you like a dirty dish rag.
At least, now you KNOW he is a cheater. You could be next. Is THAT the kind of relationship you want, knowing that while he is "with you" that he could be screwing somebody else and not telling you about it?
[By the way, "making love like fireworks" to a guy is any time he has an orgasm. Nothing new to him -- but he'll tell YOU that so that you'll want to do it again.]
Sounds like it's time to dump this relationship for somebody closer to home -- AND somebody who has some moral sensibilities. THIS guy is a loser who is using you for sex. It is very doubtful that he has any true feelings for you, and just say he loves you so that you will go to bed with him.
Drop him. Get some self-respect, and you will find a guy more suitable to your needs.
not sure about this one.. go with heath and vampire combined! you sorta gota sort yourself out and make decisions ai.....dont play them both or you could end up with netither!always gowith your heart. its the only way and if someone does get hurt - well that the risk we all take in this life and each time we get hurt we learn something ai... and you never know wahts around the corner so you gota make sure you happy and true to yourself!!! :)
If it was just for sex then no, you did not do anything wrong other than that what will he think of you now? I mean he knows you are aware of the girlfriend what kind of person does that make you!!