Was i wrong, and if I am why did it feel so right.?

How could that have possibly been right? Lets say you and this bloke get together and some new girl enters the picture and they find out they are so in love together...if they had sex because it was so great to be in love and the sex meant so much...would you mind?

Personally i think what you did is pretty horrible and have had it done to me and i can tell you...it felt absolutely awful. (They didnt love each other, she was just a slut and he was my friend at the time who hadn't got his rocks off for half a year).

If you think it's right to do that to someone then i hope it happens to you...see how ''right'' it feels then.

To the person who said ''it'll just be your dirty little secret''...i pray i never meet you or anyone like you, your kind make this world a worse place to live in.

Go ahead btw...give me a bad rating, afterall, unless people completely agree and say ''omg yeah, that was amazing, im so happy for you'', your not going to like it.

Shame on you.

You may not have don anything wrong, but this co-called "best friend" used you like a dirty dish rag.

At least, now you KNOW he is a cheater. You could be next. Is THAT the kind of relationship you want, knowing that while he is "with you" that he could be screwing somebody else and not telling you about it?

[By the way, "making love like fireworks" to a guy is any time he has an orgasm. Nothing new to him -- but he'll tell YOU that so that you'll want to do it again.]

Sounds like it's time to dump this relationship for somebody closer to home -- AND somebody who has some moral sensibilities. THIS guy is a loser who is using you for sex. It is very doubtful that he has any true feelings for you, and just say he loves you so that you will go to bed with him.

Drop him. Get some self-respect, and you will find a guy more suitable to your needs.

not sure about this one.. go with heath and vampire combined! you sorta gota sort yourself out and make decisions ai.....dont play them both or you could end up with netither!always gowith your heart. its the only way and if someone does get hurt - well that the risk we all take in this life and each time we get hurt we learn something ai... and you never know wahts around the corner so you gota make sure you happy and true to yourself!!! :)

It sounds like you two are good for each other. I think it is a never ending love! You cant stop what is meant to be!

If it was just for sex then no, you did not do anything wrong other than that what will he think of you now? I mean he knows you are aware of the girlfriend what kind of person does that make you!!

i was in the same situation...

we were friends and he found himself a girlfriend

but i didnt care

it was later that we BOTH fell in love with each other...but he was afraid to break her heart, the only reason i didnt stop myself from falling in love with him was because she cheated on him...

so maybe thats the problem, he loves you but isnt happy with her but doesnt want to break her heart.

i wouldnt of slept with him though until he breaks up with her, very wrong on your part.

think about the girl back home what if she knew you made love

if you didn't know she was still in the picture then it's his fault

if you do your both to blame

Just make shure you don't let yourself get hurt. It is up to him how he deals with his relationship with his gf and he is not married. Just don't expect anything to come from it because he may have just been having fun.

i dont understand why got a gf when he said he loved you...if anyone is to balme...i think its him

no, i don't think you did..as long as the little gf at home never finds out it'll be your dirty little secret