Anyone Have Relationship Advice for Me?

My boyfriend and I moved in together in September. Everything was fine up until New Years. Lately he's been really distant, and reserved around me. We used to talk about everything, now he just clams up when I walk in the room. He still acts the same around his guy friends from what I can tell.

I've tried talking to him about this and all he says is "it's stress". Understandable, but he won't tell me whats stressing him.

Even our sex life has taken a significant hit. He hasn't touched me since December, and whenever I make an offer, he says "it's not you, it's me, just not in the mood."

Am I reading too much into this? Or should I just take a back seat and let him work whatever it is out?

Any help would be awesome.

Thanks in advance and sorry so long.

Anonymous2009-02-12T17:06:21Z

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Ugh, this is what my boyfriend did a few times...

First time, he was having doubts about us.
Second time, he had cheated and felt guilty.

Just tell him, I need to really know what's going on because this is bull ****.

Grace Lynnn2009-02-13T01:17:05Z

Hey just let things play itself out. maybe he is just stressed or maybe he is confused on how he feels. im sure its nothing to do with you but its just him being confused. so give him some time to think things out and im sure you too will be awesome !

good luck boys suck lol !