Well I know this guy for sometime but we started having sex by our second date weve been having sex ever since and now i would like him to see me as more then a booty call is this possible or have i already doomed it and cant turn back now?
Amber
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The chances of turning it around now are slim to none. That's like giving someone a car for free and then a few weeks later saying, "Okay, now you have to pay for it." Not gonna happen, sorry.
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I keep reading the way to a mans heart is to take it slow and dont give him sex for awile now what do i do?
Well I know this guy for sometime but we started having sex by our second date weve been having sex ever since and now i would like him to see me as more then a booty call is this possible or have i already doomed it and cant turn back now?
Anonymous
You are not doomed. That is not the way to a man's heart. Not every man's heart. If you like him, tell him. If he doesn't respond to your benefit, then he may just not be the right one for you. Ask him, hypothetically, what he would think about that. If he tells you that he would be into a relationship or getting to know each other better, then go for it, however, DO NOT ease up on the sex, that keeps it fun, but show him your love making, not just effing. Be sensual, make love. Set the mood and have that conversation. Doesn't make any difference whether he says yes or no. At least you have the answer. If he doesn't like the conversation, then let him out of it and MOVE ON!
Agony
You have doomed it. He doesn't respect you if you gave it up on the second date. He thinks you are easy and your relationship will probably never grow past the booty call thing. But now that you have given it up you can't take it back. If you cut him off he will just go elsewhere for it. The relationship as it is will end. If you girls would just make these men work hard and earn it instead of giving them the only thing they are after anyway, then your lives would be better. Why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free?
Brittanie
Sadly I think its already doomed. I mean you can not try to cut down the sex a little bit and try talking with him but the problem is because you had sex so early in the relationship there's no more respect, its only a physical thing. Just try talking to him- odds are you should start looking for someone else.