I keep reading the way to a mans heart is to take it slow and dont give him sex for awile now what do i do?

The chances of turning it around now are slim to none. That's like giving someone a car for free and then a few weeks later saying, "Okay, now you have to pay for it." Not gonna happen, sorry.

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I keep reading the way to a mans heart is to take it slow and dont give him sex for awile now what do i do?

Well I know this guy for sometime but we started having sex by our second date weve been having sex ever since and now i would like him to see me as more then a booty call is this possible or have i already doomed it and cant turn back now?

You are not doomed. That is not the way to a man's heart. Not every man's heart. If you like him, tell him. If he doesn't respond to your benefit, then he may just not be the right one for you. Ask him, hypothetically, what he would think about that. If he tells you that he would be into a relationship or getting to know each other better, then go for it, however, DO NOT ease up on the sex, that keeps it fun, but show him your love making, not just effing. Be sensual, make love. Set the mood and have that conversation. Doesn't make any difference whether he says yes or no. At least you have the answer. If he doesn't like the conversation, then let him out of it and MOVE ON!

You have doomed it. He doesn't respect you if you gave it up on the second date. He thinks you are easy and your relationship will probably never grow past the booty call thing. But now that you have given it up you can't take it back. If you cut him off he will just go elsewhere for it. The relationship as it is will end. If you girls would just make these men work hard and earn it instead of giving them the only thing they are after anyway, then your lives would be better. Why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free?

Sadly I think its already doomed. I mean you can not try to cut down the sex a little bit and try talking with him but the problem is because you had sex so early in the relationship there's no more respect, its only a physical thing. Just try talking to him- odds are you should start looking for someone else.

No you have doomed it, you shouldn't in my opinion have sex with a guy until he has taken you out on a nice date just the two of you and on an outing with a couple of ya'lls friends and done some other sexual activities before intercourse now it is all sexual you can try holding out and let him buy you some gifts now let him giving u oral that might start it over try hanging it out in public places more with friends when u get together to talk always flirting now and he has got a taste so you always flirt more now and make out and groping but try holfdng out for a bit too cool things now and really get to know him and let him please you more for a bit then be sexual more once u know him intellectually more again dress sexy, act sexy, and u can be a tease now, have fun but try to rewind just a little.

Just ask him if he's interested in a relationship or just sex? No need to beat around the bush since the 2 of you have sex. If you see him on his schedule most likely all he wants is sex but no one here can tell you that for sure. Not having sex with him will not make him miss you if all you have is a sexual relationship. he'll just find it elsewhere.

Honey, (I hate it when people answer this way but i am... sorry.) I am so sorry to say this but... You have already showed him that you have no problem selling yourself cheap. I mean SECOND DATE?!?! I am not going to judge you... You are a precious person im sure. But if he is just liking you because you give him your booty then he is not worth it. But if you still think he is worth it... I'm pretty sure he is going to dump you once you stop letting him have your body. If you want to continue giving your body to him, then go right ahead... But you are the one hurting yourself.

Thanks you for reading this i know it was hard..

You totally ruined it. He only sees you as a throwback now...meaning, you're only good for a booty call. Get out while you still have some self respect and next time...hold onto your cookie!!

ask him to do things with you that dont involve sex for e.g dinner, shopping,movie and so on. If hes not interested in doing those sort of things with you than you know what he is hanging around for.