what do you think about marriage at an immature age?
this is not really a question. its more a statement but i would like some feed back and see what you think. there are several people in the united states filing for divorce. and the reason is because most people getting married today are immature. and really don't have a clue what marriage is all about. then they bring a baby in to the world and guess what the mother must take care of the child where is the father who kn owes. girls and boys the word ido is small in letters but Damn its a big word. its a word you will never forget. and when someone says the word i love you it must come from the heart just because it comes from the mouth really do sent mean a thing. so if you are planing on getting married pull out your calculator and see what the life of marriage really cost add up ever thing you will need and verse it on your pay check.
L R2009-07-13T03:06:46Z
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Yep that was me, got married and had a baby at 19 when I really should have been keeping my head in my books. Had it great, I was in a 4 year university, and ran off with my hometown sweetheart and got married and had a child instead of finishing school. He really was not ready to stop being a kid, and I had to for our childs sake, in the end it really is not worth getting married and having children so young, if you can help it.
I think that getting married at any age people need to realize that it is not just about today its about forever and if the going get tough it isn't going to be an option of just packing up and moving on. I have not been married, I don't want to be married yet. I have children, I have been cheated on, and taken advantage of. When I do get married it will be a forever relationship. I am 32 and engaged, I am not rushing to get married because there are too many things in our relationship that need work and I just don't know if I love him enough to wait for all the kinks to be worked out, or to put up with the ones that are around forever. I am old enough to know what I want and need and to not settle for less.
I don't think that the age of the people getting married is as relevant as how willing they are to communicate about the big stuff in their lives - finances, religion, morals, children, etc. If they don't agree on the big things, then they shouldn't get married.
I got married young, and have been with my husband 9 years. A lot of the time it does work out.
I still do believe that marriage is a great commitment. Once committed to it, stay with it. That's what the marriage vows are for. Look at yourself and ask if you're ready. Don't get married because you have to, get married because you want to. Don't look back and regret what you did or didn't.
Once you get married, the idea of getting divorce should come no where close to your heart. It takes 2 to make a marriage strong.
I got married young and I definitely wouldn't consider it to be an "immature age". The reason people divorce has nothing to do with age, it's A) Selfish people not willing to work on issues and only want what they want B) Cheaters...all of that happens at any age.
Based on your grammar and the fact that your statement is very idiotic, I'm guessing your a 12 year old boy or a really ugly middle aged man who is just pissed of because he can't even find a girlfriend to make his wife.