ok so me and my girl were at the fair and one of my x's were there and she came up to me and gave me a huge hug and stuff and we talked but completly harmlessly and bout nothing bad but my girl flipped and left cause she said i was too busy "flirting" even though i didnt and i made sure of it. but lately she has been like this bout every girl i kno and used to have chemestry and it is pissin me off is talkin to girls that i used to have chemesty a bad thin to do or do i have a phyco GF
Anonymous2009-08-03T09:05:09Z
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Yes, it is. Especially if you are serious with your girlfriend. And especially when you get older and get married. You better not be talking to your exes when that happens. There's no reason to if you're happy with the person you're with. Especially if your ex and you are talking and your ex gave you a "huge hug."
Well it sounds like she is the controlling or jealous type so i would just be careful with what you do with other girls in front of her. But i dont see any harm in giving an x gf a hug its not like u guys kissed or made out or anything. What you should do is try talking to her about it and tell her you have no intentions of cheating on her.
did you introduce your girlfriend?... when an ex comes up to you never talk for too long. always hi how are you thats great bye. always introduce the girlfriend FIRST! and let her know thats your girl.. dont just say her name. i know a lot of people dont realize this but they flirt without knowing it. my guy talks to his ex and it bugs me even though i know they are just friends... it really pisses me off .. mostly because my last relationship the guy was always cheating so i'm so paranoid.
well maybe she felt left out...when your ex came up maybe to her you just ignored her. That is kind of messed up of you though, if it was the other way around would you like to watch you gf hugging on her ex bf and chopping it up like old times????