There's a girl in my college class who I sit next to and really like. We talk a lot during class and I usually walk with her to her car after class. We actually live in the same apartment building too. However, I'm very nervous to ask her out. because it could definitely "rock the boat" and make things awkward between us - especially since we may have classes together in the future and see each around a lot.
I don't really know if she likes me. I'm not so good at stuff like this and I know there are probably lots of people who have been through this. I just wanted to know what you did and how it worked out. Thanks.
eacbrown812009-11-10T18:10:30Z
I've been through this exact same situation (except reverse roles - where I liked a guy in one of my classes and wasn't certain how he felt about me but b/c semesters end b4 you know it nothing ever gets answered) a few years ago as an undergrad.
Ok, first things first. Has she mentioned any current boyfriends? Knowing b4 proceeding is a huge factor. Second, does she treat you differently than other male classmates she interacts with? Something that indicates she is interested in you as more than a friend. Or is she known to be glued to a cellphone constantly taking calls?
Now, since you live in the same building that adds another awkward variable to it. But to take the pressure off you, you should probably ask her if she'd be interested in going out outside the classroom? Find some event where you can spend 'getting 2 know you' time and then you can gauge and take it from there.
Confidence is your best weapon... make sure your body language agrees with what you say... if you are comfortable with the situation she will be too... beautiful girls get approached 10-15 times a day, from guys staring at them to randome strangers asking them out... so she is used to it... btw... the only way of knowing if she likes you is teasing her playfully... if she starts hitting you and teasing you back means she likes you, at least as a friend which is a good start... but you don't wanna stay in the friends category more than a day or 2 or you'll never get out of it...