I really like this girl at work, and I think she might like me am not sure,
The thing is that cause im doing something different than me then i cant speak to her and also she works different days than me,
I speak to her on facebook, but very little conversation.
Also when she left work one day she did smile at me when I was busy, also she said bye to me in a soft voice,
I don't know what to do, Any help will do Thanks
Also remember she works different days than me,
The Jue
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Talk to her on facebook. Facebook is an easy way to break the ice in a sense. Its much less nerve wracking and is able to build up a relationship easily. If you are nervous about approaching her and mess up your words when you talk etc, facebook helps eliminate this problem. It will build up your confidence while building up your relationship.
Dont start up a conversation with her (online) about work etc, just say "hey whats up" and see where that takes you. If you two would work well together than after talking a little bit online, it wont be awkward and the two of you will just be able to talk and it will feel natural.
As far as work, dont go out of your way to talk to her until you have build up that relationship. If you bump in to her or have a few extra minutes, that talking to her would be great. When you two feel comfortable about each other, than everything will just come naturally. When the two of your feel comfortable talking to each other more and more, than thats generally when you find out if you two agree/disagree on issues etc. all that crap that makes a good couple blah blah.
But until then, just talk to her online for a while, and when its easily convenient.
This is assuming that she just isnt being nice like some other people mentioned, but thats where facebook comes into play. Its much easier to find out if she is interested by talking than by her "hints" at work. When you have a good feeling she is interested, ask her out to lunch one day. If she isnt interested than she will say no. Big Deal. Know you know she doesnt like you and everyone swings and misses anyway.
Good luck though.
Mark T
The stuff with lots of arrows are key points
Ok, so the only place you can talk is facebook, Alright, there's a girl i kind of like in school, and we have no classes together, only smile and say hi to each other in the hallway. But like I said, the convos are held on Facebook, So after we talked a several times, I >>>>>>>>>>asked her number, something you should do, if you really want to take it to the next level. Start with texting, than maybe >>>>>>>>>>>>>>call her after a while; that is if texting goes well. Then if you have good long, smoothly running convos over the phone, >>>>>>>>>>ask to hang out, and spend some time with her, nothing to heavy, something like bowling, or a movie, and if it still goes well from there, > > > ask her out.
This is that part when I tell you that I am a Freshman in High School (15 yrs old)
Good Luck
Mark T
Lovelivelife
Tell her you would like to go out for a drink and if she agrees, get to know her more and if anything develops like attraction eye to eye then theres something there. If she smiles often and teases you then there is something there. Keep doing what she does smile and give her a hello too and ask her how she is.
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If she starts dropping hints about events or other similar things then ask her to them, or be a big man and come up with something yourself. Showing the initiative of going to see her when you normally wouldn't will make a good impression to.
aaliyahdhfansince94
find out when you're both off and ask her to go to lunch. Try to tell her then and see what happens next. I will tell you that work relationships can have a strain on you. Proceed wisely.