I just need some words of advise, thoughts or feelings. I just found out I'm Pregnant. I had a miscarriage 7 and half weeks ago and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are very excited but at the same time I'm scared to get excited. I have had two health pregnancy's and this was my first experience with miscarriages. I'm just wondering if you guys have an words of advise or thoughts or anything that can help us though the next few weeks, we are trying to wait for the first trimester to be over this time just in case the something happens this time we don't have to go though what we went through last time. Help or thoughts please?
2010-01-22T15:59:37Z
Josephin you are a very rude person! I asked for advise and help with dealing with my anxiety. Now for what you said I waited the two weeks my doctor told me to and If you know how pregnancy goes then you will understand that 2 of the weeks don't count so the baby is really only 4 weeks which was 3 weeks after my miscarriage. That's how doctor's count the weeks they add two to the begin. So if a woman is 38 weeks the baby is really 36 weeks. Again you are a rude person. I reached out for help and all you tried to give me was more fear so thanks for nothing hope you sleep well at night!!!
2010-01-22T16:03:06Z
Thank you for all the kind words, everyone! It really did help :)
Katie2010-01-22T17:00:21Z
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I know exactly how you feel, as I'm in the same situation. I had a missed miscarriage in late October (was supposed to be 12 weeks, but baby stopped growing around 6) and a d&c. We got pregnant again after my next period so am currently 8 weeks. I find myself constantly analysing whether my symptoms are "enough"! Even though I had an ultrasound on Monday and saw the little bean and a little heartbeat. I am nervous about something going wrong again.
It is natural to feel this way after what we have both experienced with our last pregnancies. I just try to remember that this is a different pregnancy and they are all different. There is no reason why we can't have healthy babies this time (after all, I have already had one - my 18 month old daughter) so just relax and take care of yourself. If you're concerned, you could ask your caregiver for an early ultrasound which really helped me stop worrying so much!! They can detect a heartbeat (see it, not hear it) by ultrasound around 6-7 weeks.
I had a miscarriage two a million/two years in the past at 12 weeks...that was once on October thirtieth...I obtained pregnant once more proper on the commencing of december...I was once additionally advised by means of my document that I must be satisfactory...My child became out satisfactory and ultimate and I gave delivery to a lovely nine lber at forty one weeks and now im pregnant with my third child at 20 weeks....Just given that u have one miscarriage doesnt imply that u may have an extra and u don't seem to be at a bigger danger then a lady who has under no circumstances had a miscarriage...U had your miscarriage so early on,it was once prob some thing that needed to do with the chromosomes and some thing u couldnt have averted it doesn't matter what u did. Your child is okay,dont fear =) Good Luck and Congrats!!!
First of all I want to say that I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't have imagine what you went through. The fact that you conceived so quickly after wards though is an excellent sign. If something was wrong with your body you wouldn't have conceived again so soon. It is a very exciting time but can also be very nerve racking. What you need to do is what ever feels right to you. Weather that's telling people you care about, so they can be there with you for the ups and downs, or keeping it your own precious little secret. Either way enjoy your first trimester. Everything will turn it as it should be, no matter what that may be. Congrats!!!
I know it's easier said than done, but try to relax. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage early on, and I ended up getting pregnant the next week. I am currently 27 weeks along with a healthy baby boy :] My doctor told me that the uterus still had a nutrient-rich lining to it when I had the miscarriage, thus ironically giving my baby a good start.
Good luck, and congratulations! Try not to distance yourself from this pregnancy for fear of losing the baby. This baby still needs your bonding <3
im sorry to hear that you just had a miscarriage a few weeks ago its a hard thing to go through.. i personally have never had one but i have helped my mom, my step mom and my best friend all get through it! its deffinately hard but maybe look at it from a different point of view as hard as it may be. look at it as its just not the right time for THAT baby to be born.. you have had healthy pregnancys so i am sure you will have another healthy pregnancy when the time is right. it sucks to lose a baby when you never even got to meet it but be happy with what children you do have and if its meant to be you WILL have another healthy baby. i wish you the best... you will get through it and i really really hope this pregnancy is healthy and please keep me posted! good or bad i hope i can help in some way. just know that nomatter what happens with this pregnancy you will get through it and what is meant to be will be!