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Recent Miscarriage Now Pregnant, Help Please?

I just need some words of advise, thoughts or feelings. I just found out I'm Pregnant. I had a miscarriage 7 and half weeks ago and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant. My husband and I are very excited but at the same time I'm scared to get excited. I have had two health pregnancy's and this was my first experience with miscarriages. I'm just wondering if you guys have an words of advise or thoughts or anything that can help us though the next few weeks, we are trying to wait for the first trimester to be over this time just in case the something happens this time we don't have to go though what we went through last time. Help or thoughts please?

Update:

Josephin you are a very rude person! I asked for advise and help with dealing with my anxiety. Now for what you said I waited the two weeks my doctor told me to and If you know how pregnancy goes then you will understand that 2 of the weeks don't count so the baby is really only 4 weeks which was 3 weeks after my miscarriage. That's how doctor's count the weeks they add two to the begin. So if a woman is 38 weeks the baby is really 36 weeks. Again you are a rude person. I reached out for help and all you tried to give me was more fear so thanks for nothing hope you sleep well at night!!!

Update 2:

Thank you for all the kind words, everyone! It really did help :)

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  • Katie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    I know exactly how you feel, as I'm in the same situation. I had a missed miscarriage in late October (was supposed to be 12 weeks, but baby stopped growing around 6) and a d&c. We got pregnant again after my next period so am currently 8 weeks. I find myself constantly analysing whether my symptoms are "enough"! Even though I had an ultrasound on Monday and saw the little bean and a little heartbeat. I am nervous about something going wrong again.

    It is natural to feel this way after what we have both experienced with our last pregnancies. I just try to remember that this is a different pregnancy and they are all different. There is no reason why we can't have healthy babies this time (after all, I have already had one - my 18 month old daughter) so just relax and take care of yourself. If you're concerned, you could ask your caregiver for an early ultrasound which really helped me stop worrying so much!! They can detect a heartbeat (see it, not hear it) by ultrasound around 6-7 weeks.

    Good luck!!!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I had a miscarriage two a million/two years in the past at 12 weeks...that was once on October thirtieth...I obtained pregnant once more proper on the commencing of december...I was once additionally advised by means of my document that I must be satisfactory...My child became out satisfactory and ultimate and I gave delivery to a lovely nine lber at forty one weeks and now im pregnant with my third child at 20 weeks....Just given that u have one miscarriage doesnt imply that u may have an extra and u don't seem to be at a bigger danger then a lady who has under no circumstances had a miscarriage...U had your miscarriage so early on,it was once prob some thing that needed to do with the chromosomes and some thing u couldnt have averted it doesn't matter what u did. Your child is okay,dont fear =) Good Luck and Congrats!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    First of all I want to say that I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't have imagine what you went through. The fact that you conceived so quickly after wards though is an excellent sign. If something was wrong with your body you wouldn't have conceived again so soon. It is a very exciting time but can also be very nerve racking. What you need to do is what ever feels right to you. Weather that's telling people you care about, so they can be there with you for the ups and downs, or keeping it your own precious little secret. Either way enjoy your first trimester. Everything will turn it as it should be, no matter what that may be. Congrats!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I know it's easier said than done, but try to relax. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage early on, and I ended up getting pregnant the next week. I am currently 27 weeks along with a healthy baby boy :] My doctor told me that the uterus still had a nutrient-rich lining to it when I had the miscarriage, thus ironically giving my baby a good start.

    Good luck, and congratulations! Try not to distance yourself from this pregnancy for fear of losing the baby. This baby still needs your bonding <3

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  • 1 decade ago

    im sorry to hear that you just had a miscarriage a few weeks ago its a hard thing to go through.. i personally have never had one but i have helped my mom, my step mom and my best friend all get through it! its deffinately hard but maybe look at it from a different point of view as hard as it may be. look at it as its just not the right time for THAT baby to be born.. you have had healthy pregnancys so i am sure you will have another healthy pregnancy when the time is right. it sucks to lose a baby when you never even got to meet it but be happy with what children you do have and if its meant to be you WILL have another healthy baby. i wish you the best... you will get through it and i really really hope this pregnancy is healthy and please keep me posted! good or bad i hope i can help in some way. just know that nomatter what happens with this pregnancy you will get through it and what is meant to be will be!

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry for your loss. At the same time it's not uncommon 4 women to go through this. I would just be extra careful and drink lots of water. Keep yourself healthy. If you have any feeling or questions ask your obgyn. Does not matter if feel like you are asking something stupid. Keep your faith and don't let it bring you down. Your child is up in heaven smiling down on you and does not want you to be sad. I know it's easier that done, and you wonder why you were not able to carry to full term, whats wrong with you, thinking to yourself you did all the right things etc. There is a time to morn and time to look at whats coming. I myself went through this but did not miss carry. I had my daughter 3 month early. And she was born at 2.2 ounces and did not get to go home with her, let alone after they took her from me I had to wait two weeks b4 I could see her because I got very sick. Healthy mom did not smoke, nothing. And my son was carried to full term no problems. Now that she is 8, she is healthy as she can be at times but we still have our challenges ahead of us with her. Not a day goes by I look at her and say to myself what did I do wrong? Then I snap back and say faith is some I have to have and have to move forward. Each day will get better but you will never forget, just keep your heart soft and love your child that is coming. There is no word that I can express, but for myself I have to take one day at a time with my daughter. Not look at her as dying but living and being joyful. I know it's not the same but I can relate to your pain.

    Source(s): Mother of 2 1 girl and 1 boy. Daughter is term ill and don't know if she will live to be 12 and is 8.
  • 1 decade ago

    Just don't do like my mum did after her miscarriage- she got pregnant with my sister and was so happy to be having a baby she spoiled her, my sister is now the meanest rudest selfishes person I know... honestly its true!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well, having sex just a week after a miscarriage wasn't the smartest idea. Your risk of another miscarriage is a lot higher.

    Source(s): had 2 miscarriages.
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