i just lost the boy i love the most. long story. i know have a 99% chance of never seeing him again and i have no contact with him whatsoever. i feel like i'll never find anyone else. i'm 16. has anyone ever felt like that and what happened afterwards?
i would run after him if i could but i can't. i mean it 100% that i have no contact with him
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YES! I was in a relationship with this guy from age 13 to 20. We were only 2 months apart and we were each others best friend and everything that goes along with being in a relationship. We loved each other so much for so long. As we got older things changed for the worse and it hurt really bad. We are now both 31 years old and we are both married to other people. We are nice to each other when we see each other, which isn't often. I still love him and always will but I am no longer in love with him nor him in love with me. We will always have a bond that no one can break and we know that. But to answer your question, yes you will be ok someday. It may take a few months or a year or so depending how strong of a connection you two had but it will get better, I PROMISE. Someday, you will meet someone that makes you so happy, and you look back at the relationship you had with this guy and say thank you. Thank you for teaching me about pain as well as love because now I know what I have.
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yeah, i've felt like that before. it's all part of life and growing up, it might not seem so but you will get over it eventually. usually for me it will take about (depending on the relationship) almost a year to fully get over it. it might be hard and painful but it's all part of love and relationship and it will only make you more wise. i'm sorry about your situation, but don't worry, it's okay to feel like that and you will be okay.
Mclovin'
Yes I have, but eventually I got through it.
I found someone and we've been together for 7 month's.
Your still very young, you'll get through this phase and find someone trust me.
Anonymous
You shouldn't let one boy get in the way of your life, just because he left doesn't mean you have to stop your life for him. You'll find someone else, im sure, maybe not just yet, but you will. And if he left or soemthing like that, well..its his loss isnt it?
Anonymous
Yeah. I've never actually been in love. I've never had a real relationship. But I have a crush on a guy and it's crushing me. I can't stop thinking about him, and he probably doesn't even remember my name, just "his friend's little sister"