have you ever felt like you'll never love anyone again?

YES! I was in a relationship with this guy from age 13 to 20. We were only 2 months apart and we were each others best friend and everything that goes along with being in a relationship. We loved each other so much for so long. As we got older things changed for the worse and it hurt really bad. We are now both 31 years old and we are both married to other people. We are nice to each other when we see each other, which isn't often. I still love him and always will but I am no longer in love with him nor him in love with me. We will always have a bond that no one can break and we know that. But to answer your question, yes you will be ok someday. It may take a few months or a year or so depending how strong of a connection you two had but it will get better, I PROMISE. Someday, you will meet someone that makes you so happy, and you look back at the relationship you had with this guy and say thank you. Thank you for teaching me about pain as well as love because now I know what I have.

yeah, i've felt like that before. it's all part of life and growing up, it might not seem so but you will get over it eventually. usually for me it will take about (depending on the relationship) almost a year to fully get over it. it might be hard and painful but it's all part of love and relationship and it will only make you more wise. i'm sorry about your situation, but don't worry, it's okay to feel like that and you will be okay.

Yes I have, but eventually I got through it.

I found someone and we've been together for 7 month's.

Your still very young, you'll get through this phase and find someone trust me.

You shouldn't let one boy get in the way of your life, just because he left doesn't mean you have to stop your life for him. You'll find someone else, im sure, maybe not just yet, but you will. And if he left or soemthing like that, well..its his loss isnt it?

Yeah. I've never actually been in love. I've never had a real relationship. But I have a crush on a guy and it's crushing me. I can't stop thinking about him, and he probably doesn't even remember my name, just "his friend's little sister"

Oh yeah I know that feeling ever so well!

I was 16 when I met him, he was mine for well over 1 year. My mum was prepared to let us get married before I was 18, she knew he was my whole world my purpose for waking up each day.

Then like you I had him ripped away from me, it nearly killed me. At the time I wished I could have died, I was a walking corpse.

By the time I was 18 1/2 I met someone else but could not love him like I loved the first time. When I was 25 years old I married my best friend who I was not in love with, we split 7 years later.

I ran into my one and only love at a funeral in my mid 30's, I could not believe how I felt after I spoke to him. Everything was shattered in me all over again!

He looked sad and lonely, hollow actually, he had grown old and shallow well before his time. Talking to him made me realize that I had wasted most of my life loving someone not worthy of my love. It opened my eyes to a whole new world.

The guy that I met when I was 18, had spent his life loving and missing me. We had got back together on and off, I could not stay with him because I would not allow myself to love him unconditionally.

At the age of 35 I was free, finally free to actually love someone unconditionally. I had lost somewhere around 16 years of my life and I didn't want to lose any more of it. I contacted the guy to see what was happening in his life, he had married and divorced like me, he had wasted most of his life loving me.

At the age of 39 years old I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, she is half him and half me. My only regret is not moving on with my life, I should have found my first love, talked to him and realized that were not meant for one another.

If I had, I would have had more children, a home full of love, a great man at my side that would love me until the day that I died.

I only wished that I had the sources of information that you have, you can find him. Put in all your efforts so that you can move forward and not lose most of your life like I did.

You are young, you will find true love, unconditional love but you must first set your heart free other wise you will not allow it to happen.

The saying I hate most of all in life is 'time heals all wounds'! Sadly the statement is true, time does heal but it does not let you forget. Give yourself time okay. If you want someone to say hello too feel free to drop me an email here in Australia or IM me. x0x0x0xx0

wow, this question is like my life. i was with this boy for a year and when he finished with me i was distraught and truth be told... 8 months on and i still am. He has a new life, girlfriend etc... but i still can't let go. I see him around and i have to hold my tongue everytime, you don't get over these things.. you just get used to them.

Never Love Someone

Yeah I have felt that way. It usually takes some time to get over a close Relationship like that. It takes me on Average like a Year, lol but trust me, it will become bearable. You will Indeed get over it.

Yup i have .. Twice.. eventualy got over it and now found someone else.. very happy once again.. sucks to lose someone .. but just think of being able to flirt again and look at other men with out feeling bad.. girls in my situation..lol.. anywho.. its ok you will get over it..hes a jerk for leaving you.. but its his loss not yours ..you can get another guy in no time your young and still got plenty of time