I feel like I do whatever my identical twin brother wants to do?

Hi, my name is Kyle and My brother is Jason. I never made friends like my brother did, like he always does the talking for me and does the planning of events...now I feel like i smoke cigs, smoke pot, and drink because he does. Was thinking of just seperating from him...see what'd be like. Thank you for any answers anyone may have. :)

2011-03-09T01:41:19Z

btw were both 20 years of age, both unemployed. I had a job, but I lost it because of smoking pot. I feel like my brother is just dragging me down or something, but I hes my friends and i feel like I'de couldnt do anything without him, even though he always asks for help when it comes to something materialistic.

2011-03-09T01:42:27Z

sry. *hes my best friend*

2011-03-09T01:56:37Z

Yea your right...weird. When i had a gf i barely even hanged out with my brother.

Jewel2011-03-09T01:45:01Z

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I get what you mean.. I'm a twin too and my sister is sociable and wild and fun. I tried to be like her unconsciously. I've only come to terms with it after I had a boyfriend. He pointed out that when I was around her I imitated her but when I was with him I was different. He said he didn't like my sister and he liked how I am supposed to be ^^ Because I had a boyfriend, I was a tad busier and wasn't around my sister as much and stopped imitating her. Don't separate from your brother. He's your twin. Twins never separate. Just don't hang around him so much. But do remember he's still your closest family member!

?2011-03-09T02:49:52Z

Well, you and your brother look alike because you both are twin brothers but you both are unique!
Everyone is unique. No one is like us.
Accept everything about yourself. You are what you are.
God created you for who you are.

Love your brother, he is your real brother.