I'm a 14 year old guy. I recently met an aunt of mine for the first time, she came down from Connecticut to visit (I live in South Carolina). Mid-conversation she mentioned a girl that she knew very well who was single, and had a Facebook. This girl is drop dead gorgeous and from what I was told, was very smart (which is perfect for me). By the way, this girl also lives in CT. So I looked her up on Facebook, and sent a friend request, she accepted it. I kinda would like to date this chick, but I don't know where to start. Oh, and I must mention that she is 15-16 (class of '13) and I am part of the class of 2015. Where the hell do I start? How do I approach this girl on Facebook?
BIKER DUDE2011-06-05T23:31:39Z
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Your to far away dude. How could you possibly manage to date a girl that lives on the upper east coast while you live almost on the bottom of the USA east coast? I suppose if you were wealthy you could but I don't know many wealthy 14 year olds. Just chat with her and maybe someday you two might get in the same room at the same time. also go ahead and date local girls because this probably isn't going to work. She is older and girls mature faster than boys. If she is drop dead gorgeous she will have plenty older guys with cars and money chasing her. Save your self a heartbreak and let it go. There are other fishes in the sea.
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Look at her pictures and comment one you like or think is funny. Kind of play around or make fun of her, she'll be flirty back. Then message her saying you were just playing around start up a conversation, gradually then say she's cool and wanna chill sometime. Ask for her number then go from there. That's exactly how my boyfriend got me at 15 and we've been dating 2 and a half years now.
Just say hi to her. whats the worst that could happen. Take the risk. Dont be the person that looks back on life in regret or looking back and saying " Damn....I wish I would have done that."