My boyfriend isn't as hard?

When my boyfriend gets an erection it isn't as hard as i would like it to be..comparatively to my exes he's a lot softer.

Why? and how can i fix it?

?2011-06-23T21:10:00Z

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you can't fix it its his penis he has to find ways to make it harder
your only role is to help him and support him

Hopeless2011-06-24T00:07:47Z

Play with him alot. Every guy is different. My boyfriend is impotent, and it doesn't bother me, but for some, sex is important. Maybe talk to him about taking some medication to help him with his erections?

?2011-06-23T21:16:38Z

happens with my boyfriend sometimes, you just have to say the right thing and turn him on a looooot.

good luck!

John2011-06-23T21:13:37Z

Might the problem be that...' Your' To Soft!!?