I met a girl about a year ago and we went on a couple dates, then I guess she lost interest and we lost touch. I ran into her again, and I didn't have any resentment towards her. After all, if she doesn't like me, then I move on. However, after I ran into her she was all into me. More than the first time. She texted a lot, called, and we ended up going on another date.
Well, now we're back to her not communicating or returning my calls. What was the point of all this if she was just going to lose interest again or whatever? Could their be an outside issue or is it just about playing games? She's 30, so you'd think they be done with all that.
Anonymous2011-11-27T16:53:47Z
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Maybe she wanted to remind herself if she liked you or not... i would confront her. maybe call her one day and talk about it over the phone that way you won't feel awkward and then maybe later on say lets talk about it over some coffee. but definitely talk about it with her, make sure you call first so you won't be choky over words!! (really helps, and makes you feel tough)
I don't think she is worth it. It sounds like she was lonely around the times she bumped into you, therefore needing someone to lean on. So she chose you and decided to go on a date. Then might have met someone else. I think you should leave her alone because it seems like she is playing games. Good Luck!
She is a very insecure person and very confused and jumping from one relationship to another one? She is a lonely person with a entry void in her life and she trying to fulfill it through holding on a man .
You shouldn't continue to place your life on hold .
If she's playing games, then why don't you play with her? Call her, act very interested, then drop her. Girls tend to want things that they can't have.