Libra men, I need insight on a breakup?
I just finished a very splintered relationship with my Libra man. I'm a Leo. He was very distraught towards the end of our relationships. Very confused, low self esteem, unbalanced if you will. VERY DIFFICULT. I love and loved him unconditionally and tried to make it work, but it's like he just couldn't 'handle' the relationship with everything going on. I wasn't asking for much, just respect, and he took all his problems out on me being very very rude and demanding and nit picky. I honestly wonder if he is bipolar because he has serious issues, and I feel for me, but cannot help him at this point. We broke up last night. Things have been super strained and distant. I guess you could say our breakup was mutual? But it wasn't really. That was the last thing I wanted but I could see how it's breaking him down and needed to let him go. It seems like he was sabotaging from day one, and has some seriuos issues with that in his life. Hardest decision I ever had to make was to walk away. I love this person unconditionally and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. I've never felt that way before. In parting, we both dragged it out, afraid of what would happen once I left. He kept saying how sorry he was and that he didn't know what was wrong with him and why he couldnt treat me like i deserved. He was profusely saying im sorry. We cried, we laughed, we kissed passionately, and I began to see the light in his eyes again. I know it was the right decision bc it just wasnt working. He's very confused, and moving/trying to find an apt and has too much on his plate. I love him, and hope to be with him one day and he said the said. He said he loved me so much, and it's like he forgot everything he loved and got lost. Then he talked about how he used to pet my back every morning and how that was his favorite thing. We don't really know how things got so messed up, but i promise you, he was driving it. MY QUESTION IS: How should i be with him. I really really really do hope to be with him one day after he is well, but we neeed to let some resentment die, and i know if i leave him alone he will regret and appreciate me more. Should I wait for him to contact me? Do no contact for a while or just be a friend? MOST IMPORTANTLY: Do u think he was sincere in saying he hopes we can be together one day , or was he just mirroring to 'be nice'? Is that a libra thing? ty. Also, he's a pisces moon if that helps. I'm a libra moon.