Libra men, please help me with a breakup?

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Libra men in breakups-insight please?
Hmm...So I pretty much just need you to clue me in on what's happening..and what's the smartest/safest way for me to deal with this(forme).

Had a very tumultuous relationship with a Libra man. Same old story, treated me like a gem in the beginning...then began splicing it with wild mood swings, picking fights, emotional abuse and head games:( I can assure you, I was extra sweet to him, if anything-too sweet. Of course, when I put my foot down he was all: please don't give up on me, i'll never give up on u, etc. Then when I needed him, he ran.. I'm wondering if this is an unbalanced Libra, or someone that's bipolar honestly.

Anyways, he suddenly broke up with me in the heat of an argument he fostered over what? I have no idea. This was the night he was to move out of his apt, having not found a new one. A few days roll by . I get an "I miss u." I text something polite back-mirroring. But I didn't know how i felt. I love the guy, but our relationship was messed up. He really manipulated me, and he's a mess! Well, a few days go by and I don't hear from him. I reach out, get a polite response. he won't answer the phone. (he hates the phone blah blah)

Then we meet up...2 weeks later ( i initiate). He's magnetically drawn to me. Looking a mess (not like himself at all). Then looking at me lik ehe loves me. Then he gets weird/confused suddenly. Comes over, tries to have sex with me (NOT HAPPENING)...then says well obviously I like you a lot..I'm like HUH? You don't love me!? He's like, IDK. This was the guy, that told his parents all about me, joked about growing old with me. Said he loved me more every day. ...I just sent him home. Oh, he also threw into the mix, that he quit his job, and was maybe leaving NYC and going home(to mommy). I was shocked. I feel abandoned. The breakup was like "I'm sorry. I love you I just need to get myself together. I'll come back to you". Now idk what's going on?!

Has anyone ever dealt with anything like this? He's in his hometown now. I'm wondering if he's coming back. It's been scattered texts since then. Mostly one sided. He's being super self involved. I feel abandonded and confused. Should I just drop him cold?! I wonder if he'll have the decency to even give me closure . I wonder if I even care!

    1 day ago
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Additional Details
He's a Libra moon in pisces..drama! I'm a Leo moon in libra. both sag. rising

P.s. Wouldn't change the fb status. I hid mine today. Sure enough, he did the same.

Steven · Accepted Answer

hmm, assuming you are a Sagittarius you are supposed to be one of the compatible signs libra has. remember libra only has a limited amount of mutually compatible signs, the other 6 of the 12 do not work with libra. 

libra is one of the most insecure signs of the zodiac, unless the guy you are with is an unbalanced libra which this type of libra exists you're in for a wild ride.

our charm can be used against us as well as it favoring us, i think his charms are wearing out and his scales are coming apart. because once his balance rips all the way out he'll break down and cry over what may have been. 

libra should not be displaying a super self involved side, we tend to be the diplomatic ones of the 12 zodiac signs. i'm not thinking he's a bipolar libra, i think this libra is unbalanced and his scales are experiencing problems balancing what's important. 

I would not advise continuing the relationship with him at this time, he clearly needs time to get himself together. the most you can do is tell him "i'm not going to continue the relationship i have with you at this time, you need to regain your composure"

i don't think he'll come back due to his issue in balance, no don't drop him cold just yet. most libra's are able to give closure. i think he's playing with you and your emotions, are you one of the other 11 signs with delicate emotions? if you are he's won in a way. 

which of the other 11 signs are you actually? i made the assumption you are a Sagittarius because you enjoy arts like him.

i'm sorry you are going through this with a libra, and librans don't do well in breakups.

Kimberly · Answer

Again, I know 2 Libras. I can say that they both respond to breakups very hard. 1 Libra I knew was clingy afterwards, and the other Libra just accepted the break-up and moved on. Some traits fit some signs and others don't.

Aingwang · Answer

Take this from a Leo guy who dated a Libra girl.Libra girls don't even know what they want.They are a mess.We cannot say anything to people who don't know about themselves.I'm a Leo who can take a decision unlike a girl who can't.I've a Libra moon.I hate it though but most of the time Leo sun works on me

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