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I'm 90% sure this taurus is digging me....and we get a little more touchy each time..but it's still standoffish enough that we can play the friend card however, i would say, i most certainly don't touch any of my other friends like that :p!

Anyways...he was laying on my bed..I had my feet up against his chest...and he would touch my leg occasionally during conversation. He began to talk about this other girl we all hang out with (she's way too young for him though. so it's a no go). Saying she was attractive to him, etc. But he kept using it as an excuse to touch me! So it was a little confusing. BEING A LEO I don't want him to talk about any other girl but me! But I kept my cool just discussing it and changing the subject. I did however express that I think she is boring (bc I do).

Was he trying to make me jealous? Or test me? That bit was a little confusing...He's a nice guy, but likes to play A LOT! His playfulness is a bit sly. We haven't kissed or anything. But he keeps coming to meet me and staying with me till late/lingering.

Hmmm ok. Leo lady here...first experience with a Taurus man. He's kinda confusing? More, his energy is just different. I'm not quite sure what to make of it. Well, he was definitely drawn to me. He's a pro skater...and I skate all the races..so we see each other around. Via fb he's watched all my music videos (I'm a musician) and reached out to me via fb wall,email,and text about getting lessons. We accidentally ended up hanging out a few times bc of my friend bailing and leaving us together haha. And we got to the same church so we ran into each other there first (where I was instantly drawn to him..he's HOT). So we've hung out alone late hours in a park just talking about life. He likes to talk in depth about the universe as do I so we connect in this way. He asks lots of questions and I have lots of opinions. He's a good dude for sure. Really kind.

The last time we hung out...I asked him to teach me russian..and he said beautiful (the female version) haha. Then he canceled plans with his friends and hung out with me in the park all night. But he missed his morning obligation due to that (not my fault!) and said he "learned his lesson". He called me last night to ask about church and I said I would teach him a lesson. He's leaving in 4 days to skate for 2 months across America. I think he's feeling stressed about that...and we're having a clash of egos. I'm very much like no u come here, and he's like no you call me and come here. But we both want to compromise. I texted him today about meeting...and idk I didn' think he was understanding me..call me. And he was like no YOU don't understand...and I thought that was rude I'm offering him a free lesson I normally charge for! and reach ing out to him about it!! So i expressed my disdain and he called immediately to apologize and say he didn't mean it like that. He said he would be free after they shot his video today and would call me to see if we could meet up. I kinda want him to make for sure plans, but I don't think he can bc he's trying to get everything together before the trip. He seems stressed, but genuine. Do u think he's into me or what?

Last time we hung out he was touching me a lot in a cute flirty way (; I kept my distance, I'm classy..but lots of smiles and laughter. We are both cautious ..I think because we've been burned before. Thoughts!?

Hell hath no fury like a Leo scorned! Ugh, but a Leo abandoned...........just sulky.

So my ex (libra) burned me so bad...an I played nice with him bc he had manipulated me to do so. He dumped me, and cried on my shoulder. I was super nice. Then we met up, I was super nice. Then he moves takes my stuff and doesn't tell me. I was super nice UGH. I was so warped bc I was so lovesick..that I wasn't being myself. This dude screwed me over...we were dating seriously then he turned on me, then just totally abandoned me. I was super sweet to him, always fixing his problems...not acting very leonian at all..more like a docile kitty. His most recent letter to me, confirming he had moved out of state, was very curt..and rude. He was like: my stuff is in storage. You'll get your necklace back...eventually. Well, it's been a month and I feel like myself again. When I look back I WAS WRONGED. He doesn't seem to really care about me and is just moving on like crazy psychos do as if it never happend. I want to write him a letter telling him what a douche he is. I want to hurt him. Do u think that's a good idea, why? What would hurt a Libra most? Staying silent (he doesn't seem to care) or rattling the cage one last time then deleting him from my fb?

Sun:Leo

Rising: Sag

Moon: Libra

Mercury:Leo

Venus:Cancer

Mars:Leo

Short, but very passionate relationship. Very traumatic...he had major issues. Self esteem, abandonment. He went from planning our future, to being very difficult. I felt I was manipulated a lot. Then in a fit of tears he broke up with me..then proceeded to cry on my shoulder telling me he loved me forever and maybe one day we could be together. I feel that was all very 'in the moment' ..but in my head it strung me a long for a month. I didnt hear from him, then we met..and he just looked a mess. He'd quit his job, and seemed like he had totally sunken into himself. We kissed and he looked at me with love...but later proceeded to tell me he wasnt sure if he loved me..and was confused about everything. During this month I was very hurt. Feeling disgarded. He did not seek me out, and his responses were very brief, and polite. I went from talking to this person all day everyday to the cold nothingness. The other day I see on his moms fb..he's moved back home (he's 26 btw!)

I wrote him an email asking if this was true. And saying I had hoped to see him to say goodbye for closure. He wrote back a very 'polite' email...saying we did not agree and he didn't feel closure was necissary/or even know what that was. But he felt meeting was a very bad idea. He said he was sorry he didn't tell me he was leaving, but he didn't want anyone to influence the decision (he's very indecisive)...which I wouldn't have. I think what he meant was- he didn't want to see/hear the pain it would cause. After seeing this email I felt immediately sick and threw up. I've been having migraines since. I'm very sad, very confused, and so hurt.

Has anyone dealt with anything like this. I feel like he just threw me away. I don't trust my feelings at all. Now I'm not sure of anything. My feelings for him were the strongest I'd ever felt..but now I'm wondering if what I loved was real. Either way, it hurts all the same. He exited my life, and his here in NEW YORK very quick. And I know I will never see him again. He's so distant and messed up, that he won't give me the answers....not that he even knows them.

It's very hard. I just don't know what to do.

I'm sick of feelings this way. Having a hard time 'getting moving'. Finally accepting it's over. .a month later.

I dated a SUPER confused, very bipolar Libra man. At first I was 'perfect'...but then his bs broke me down. I stayed too long. Anyways he was always causing and arguement and finally dumped me in the middle of some contrived dramatic scene...(followed by him crying on my shoulder and saying he loved me of course) Psycho. Anyways, When I saw him a few weeks later..he looked at me all lovingly said he was super confused. Quit his job and might move out of the state . His scales are definitely coming apart. He knows I loved him. And didn't want to break up (at that time). But he kissed me deeply and looked at me 'like he used to' then later said I obviously really lke you..I'm like what? You don't love me? He's like I'm not sure if I do. I was shocked. Then later he looked in my eyes and said he did, he was just so confused HA! I haven't heard from him since-2 weeks.

He's not a player. Just a super smart nerdy awkward dude that I obviously put too much trust in. He was serious about me I could tell by the way his family was acting with me and what he'd told them. But then it's like he just went crazy. Now it seems like I never existed! Was he ever in love? What the heck is going on!?!?!??

Sag rising Libra sun Pisces Moon..then a ton of virgo everywhere else almost. We just broke up...and he's being cold. Not reaching out to me at all. I thought this man was my best friend. I'm so confused. Can anyone explain this. It's been a month :( And we texted last week...but i initiated. He just changed our relationship status..which hurt. even though its a month later.

I had a horrible breakup ...I was shamed and mistreated with the only person I've ever truly loved. They don't deserve me..and are showing no interest in my life. I still want to be with them, even though I know it's no good. I obsess, but I really do want to move on. I've got big things to do in life. Are there any tricks to moving on quickly> ? I keep going back and forth between stages of grief...almost like a prisoner.

Well, immature men I should say. My ex and I had a pretty intense 7 month relationship. You coudl call it accelerated. He showerd me in promises of the future, took me home with him etc. And he hasn't done that before. You could tell his parents were really taking it seriously. Then the last few months he just started being a jerk, picking fights, refusing to talk, being manipulative...very bipolar. I loved him and thought it was a bump in the road. Then he started breaking up and making up with me. Then he dumped me the day I got back from Florida in a spat. Then he breaks down crying for two hours. I comforted HIM! I didn't want to break up. I loved him wholeheartedly..but yea, he didnt deserve my love. So we dont talk for a week..except and i miss u text from him. we meet up a few weeks later. he looks A MESS. he quit his job. is acting super weird. then nhe lies in my lap looks at me lovingly and kisses me. it was very sweet adn natural that day. then when night hits he gets weird again. then says he doesnt know if he loves me!:?! wth. so he left we kissed. idk...

oh he also threw in : i might leave ny and go home. WHA!!!!!!!!!!!! So its been a week..havent heard a peep. he finally changed our fb status the other day..which HURT. he seems to be feeling better..having had his mommy take care of him in his hometown. got his job back and is coming back to ny. i feel like he doesnt care!? is this just how guys deal with things :? it seems like he's rebuilding his life without me :( I'm just leaving him alone.

Honestly, i wonder if he's bipolar.

When we broke up he was like i love you forever . i'm so sorry.

He just broke my heart and hasn't given any closure. Sometimes I wonder if the changing of the status was a little mind game to see if I'd react.

Libra men in breakups-insight please?

Hmm...So I pretty much just need you to clue me in on what's happening..and what's the smartest/safest way for me to deal with this(forme).

Had a very tumultuous relationship with a Libra man. Same old story, treated me like a gem in the beginning...then began splicing it with wild mood swings, picking fights, emotional abuse and head games:( I can assure you, I was extra sweet to him, if anything-too sweet. Of course, when I put my foot down he was all: please don't give up on me, i'll never give up on u, etc. Then when I needed him, he ran.. I'm wondering if this is an unbalanced Libra, or someone that's bipolar honestly.

Anyways, he suddenly broke up with me in the heat of an argument he fostered over what? I have no idea. This was the night he was to move out of his apt, having not found a new one. A few days roll by . I get an "I miss u." I text something polite back-mirroring. But I didn't know how i felt. I love the guy, but our relationship was messed up. He really manipulated me, and he's a mess! Well, a few days go by and I don't hear from him. I reach out, get a polite response. he won't answer the phone. (he hates the phone blah blah)

Then we meet up...2 weeks later ( i initiate). He's magnetically drawn to me. Looking a mess (not like himself at all). Then looking at me lik ehe loves me. Then he gets weird/confused suddenly. Comes over, tries to have sex with me (NOT HAPPENING)...then says well obviously I like you a lot..I'm like HUH? You don't love me!? He's like, IDK. This was the guy, that told his parents all about me, joked about growing old with me. Said he loved me more every day. ...I just sent him home. Oh, he also threw into the mix, that he quit his job, and was maybe leaving NYC and going home(to mommy). I was shocked. I feel abandoned. The breakup was like "I'm sorry. I love you I just need to get myself together. I'll come back to you". Now idk what's going on?!

Has anyone ever dealt with anything like this? He's in his hometown now. I'm wondering if he's coming back. It's been scattered texts since then. Mostly one sided. He's being super self involved. I feel abandonded and confused. Should I just drop him cold?! I wonder if he'll have the decency to even give me closure . I wonder if I even care!

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He's a Libra moon in pisces..drama! I'm a Leo moon in libra. both sag. rising

P.s. Wouldn't change the fb status. I hid mine today. Sure enough, he did the same.

My boyfriend and I had a short(6mo) very powerful relationship. He's the only person I've ever met that I saw myself with forever. He said the same. But life got hard...and he has been dealing with depression/jobs/etc. I lost my job, and everything just got to be too much. We fought a lot there at the end. He was trying to make up but I was just too angry and acted very aggressively and defensively. I regret that now. In a fit of anger he broke up with me (he's done this before, but always comes back). This time, I let him. Mostly because I just didn't want to see him that upset. I just said, "ok". He cried ALOT on my shoulder. I told him I loved him forever, he said the same. I asked if there was hope for the future, he said yes. And that he didn't know why he hadn't treated me like I deserved (he lost his temper alot). Then we kissed and just kinda sat there and joked. Then I finally got up, he was trying to say something,but I told him I had to go or I never would. I called him a few days after. He send me some joke text..but his family was in town, so I left him alone. He also moved out of his apt the day we broke up. He hasn't found a new one, and is crashing on a friend's couch(very stressful). I've been real sad, but doing ok. He texted me 5 days after the breakup saying, " I miss you a lot hope you are well" I replied "you too are missed, hope you are having fun with your family." Honestly, I want him back. I was smothering him before. I see everything I did wrong. Hopefully he has had time to examine his wrongs as well. I really really love this person and believe we are meant to be. Most people suggest NO contact ....I mean, I have life stuff to get in order, him too. But any advice? I was thinking of reaching out to him with a light text in a few days. TThankyou

I just finished a very splintered relationship with my Libra man. I'm a Leo. He was very distraught towards the end of our relationships. Very confused, low self esteem, unbalanced if you will. VERY DIFFICULT. I love and loved him unconditionally and tried to make it work, but it's like he just couldn't 'handle' the relationship with everything going on. I wasn't asking for much, just respect, and he took all his problems out on me being very very rude and demanding and nit picky. I honestly wonder if he is bipolar because he has serious issues, and I feel for me, but cannot help him at this point. We broke up last night. Things have been super strained and distant. I guess you could say our breakup was mutual? But it wasn't really. That was the last thing I wanted but I could see how it's breaking him down and needed to let him go. It seems like he was sabotaging from day one, and has some seriuos issues with that in his life. Hardest decision I ever had to make was to walk away. I love this person unconditionally and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. I've never felt that way before. In parting, we both dragged it out, afraid of what would happen once I left. He kept saying how sorry he was and that he didn't know what was wrong with him and why he couldnt treat me like i deserved. He was profusely saying im sorry. We cried, we laughed, we kissed passionately, and I began to see the light in his eyes again. I know it was the right decision bc it just wasnt working. He's very confused, and moving/trying to find an apt and has too much on his plate. I love him, and hope to be with him one day and he said the said. He said he loved me so much, and it's like he forgot everything he loved and got lost. Then he talked about how he used to pet my back every morning and how that was his favorite thing. We don't really know how things got so messed up, but i promise you, he was driving it. MY QUESTION IS: How should i be with him. I really really really do hope to be with him one day after he is well, but we neeed to let some resentment die, and i know if i leave him alone he will regret and appreciate me more. Should I wait for him to contact me? Do no contact for a while or just be a friend? MOST IMPORTANTLY: Do u think he was sincere in saying he hopes we can be together one day , or was he just mirroring to 'be nice'? Is that a libra thing? ty. Also, he's a pisces moon if that helps. I'm a libra moon.

I'm wondering if most men are empathetic. I'm sadly just figuring out I'm probably 'in love' with a narcisist. He is severely lacking empathy and downright cruel now...unwilling to face his own actions. Runs from conflict that he starts, and his remedy is leaving the building or the relationship..naturally only to come back looking perfectly sane...He was giving and first (same old story right?) promised the moon, seem true. But I think it seemed that way because he believed it too. But the mask fell and what's inside is nasty nasty. Trying to reverse my love and brain. I genuinely thought this was my soulmate. I have never been so off the mark.

I love my boyfriend...thought he was my soulmate and wanted to make it work. But lately he's just gone off the deep end. I am hoping a Libra can shed some light on what is happening and what I can do, if there is anything, to save the relationship. We have had a rough month in life and together. It's been very tumultous and negative. He has mistreated me..and it's like he ran out of apologies. I love him, but now feel insecure and hurt...so I'm now overemotional, overthinking , and overtalking. Recently , all of the suddent, he's started shutting me out..WHich just makes me act and feel even crazier. It's the one thing that hurts me..is to be in limbo. He says I won't let him off the phone, I'm smothering him, he has a crazy short fuse, and has been displaying violence and not really showing remorse I think due tto pride, bc i know he feels bad and knows it's wrong. I am so depressed and literally love sick. IDK why I still care, but I do. Yesterday he threationed to call the cops if I came over, to break up or talk. That is INSANE. Last week he invited me to fly home to his hometown. He's turned on me so quickly and seems very angry with me. He won't even talk to me. He picks up the phone but hangs up shortly after saying he doesnt want to talk about it. He promised to come over yesterday, then got mad when I wouldnt come out with him to th emovies. And said he wouldnt come because he was mad and it wasnt a good idea, but said he would come today. Now I'm not even sure if he will do tha. He doesnt seem to want to talk to me, and wont tell me where we stand int he relationship. Won't break up, etc. He gets mad when I ask. Please help. I am so sad. I just want him to talk to me and tell me how he feels so I can get closure. I thought we were close and he jus turned cold so quick and it's killing me.

I've been with mine for 5 months now. We were so close at first..I felt like he was always there, and he was always trying to hang out with me. He had kind of a mental breakdown and it put a major strain on our relationship. We're trying to piece things back together again. You could say it's a very delicate time.

Well, I'm not sensing much urge on his part. He's polite, and I know very scared to do the wrong thing, as he has done in the past...but he's not really trying to make plans with me, and he just seems distant..but always has in one way or another.

I helped him when he was having problems and encouraged him to take ths new job that is great for him..I really built him up, even when he was fighting with me and being a jerk of a boyfriend, I was still a great friend to him. Now I'm out of work, and really depressed, and the 'sensitive one' . I'm not feeling the same support.

I have to ask him to make plans with me, and explained calmly that I can't always be the one to do that, it doesn't make me feel good. So he responded by saying he would come over tomorrow. I began to express how I was feeling really sad about life..and he just said " I don't know what to say." Which was not helping obviously...but more upsetting, cause he used to always know what to say. I just want him to be a friend to me and be supportive. It's just awkward because I feel like there are entire continents between us. I have heard Libras don't know what to do with the girl once they 'got' her. Can anyone relate or shed some light on this experience?

We're just over the honeymoon stage and quite in love. He is floundering a bit however.

He appears to be sure of me..and says he loves me and wants to live with me. He is also taking me to meet his family in

another state next month. However, there is some distance there that I find confusing. He used to make advanced plans with me

and there was always a passionate urgency with sex. Recently, more time goes by..and I have to bring up "When am I going to see you

again?" And then he promptly says he will come over the following evening. Is he lazy, comfortable, or what? It doesn't make this little

Leo feel so good having to initiate everything! Both of us have gotten new jobs, and there's a schedule shift..so maybe that's it?

Is that just a Libra being passive/lazy/comfortable, or could there be something under the surface that is wrong?

I just miss him in more than one way and I'm feeling frusterated that he doesn't appear to be feeling it with the degree that I am.

Should I pull back so he initiates more? Or just say what I want and always be the one on the ball.

I caught my Libra soulmate. Now I want to make sure I can keep him! Please be very specific (:

I'm a Leo. I know he says we are very alike..which I think he likes? He's hard to read though...but he tells me he loves me and that I am beautiful...invites me to meet his family. Wants to move in with me..but sometimes just gets spacey. So I wonder. Thanks in advance! xoxo

My boyfriend becomes suddenly shy..or claims to be shy. I have a really

hard time believing this. I know he can be shy with other people because he

doesn't feel comfortable but he is actually very playful with me and says some of

the ballsy-est off the wall stuff. I know people are multidimensional...

but I kinda think the coyness is just a polite act. Any thoughts?

I have no insurance I don't make a lot. Please don't forward me to their toll free number. They're closed on weekends..and I'd just like to know if anyone knows from experience.