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Are Libra men undemonstrative in dating?

I've been with mine for 5 months now. We were so close at first..I felt like he was always there, and he was always trying to hang out with me. He had kind of a mental breakdown and it put a major strain on our relationship. We're trying to piece things back together again. You could say it's a very delicate time.

Well, I'm not sensing much urge on his part. He's polite, and I know very scared to do the wrong thing, as he has done in the past...but he's not really trying to make plans with me, and he just seems distant..but always has in one way or another.

I helped him when he was having problems and encouraged him to take ths new job that is great for him..I really built him up, even when he was fighting with me and being a jerk of a boyfriend, I was still a great friend to him. Now I'm out of work, and really depressed, and the 'sensitive one' . I'm not feeling the same support.

I have to ask him to make plans with me, and explained calmly that I can't always be the one to do that, it doesn't make me feel good. So he responded by saying he would come over tomorrow. I began to express how I was feeling really sad about life..and he just said " I don't know what to say." Which was not helping obviously...but more upsetting, cause he used to always know what to say. I just want him to be a friend to me and be supportive. It's just awkward because I feel like there are entire continents between us. I have heard Libras don't know what to do with the girl once they 'got' her. Can anyone relate or shed some light on this experience?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/

    Have you ever asked yourself why you find things like this so fascinating? The reason, I suspect, is because down inside you feel uncertain and nervous about the future and think these things might help you feel more confident.

    But this is precisely why I urge you to put your trust in God alone for the future. As I have often said, predictions like these about the future are almost never on target (or else they are too vague to really mean anything). Why build your life around them or get your guidance from them? They are only a substitute for the guidance you really need—which is from God.

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    Don't be misled: Occult practices are not from God, but from spiritual forces opposed to God. Instead, put your faith and trust in Christ. When we know Him, we know we are safely in His hands no matter what the future holds. The Bible is right: "When men tell you to consult mediums and spiritists ... should not a people inquire of their God?" (Isaiah 8:19).

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    Source(s): www.bgea.org
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Remember that Astrology has no scientific measurements and has a base of the earth being the center of the universe and does not calculate for many things. I wouldn't trust horoscopes for anything. It is something girls tend to like more than guys because the concept of figuring someone out on the spot is emotionally satisfying (women are more emotional than men). In effect it uses a similar tool to gain belief that religion does. It is still a pseudoscience.

    You are dating someone who is emotionally detached or at least unresponsive. Many people confuse the two. I don't know which one he is. That's all there is too it.

    Source(s): http://davehamm.hubpages.com/hub/Astrology_and_Ast... and check out the Wikipedia article on Astrology. You are asking a question that is fundamentally flawed for helping your relationship.
  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I have found that libra men can be commited, but they'll never truly go out of their way to put in as much effort to make the relationship work. They are very playful & spontaneous, but when it comes down to the crunch, the only ones i've experienced were players or just better off as friends.

    Source(s): Experiences with Libra men.
  • 9 years ago

    No. Libras are the most romantic of the Zodiac signs. However, Libras tend to be cautious in their displays of emotions because they detest hurting anyone. They will do whatever they can to keep the peace.

    Source(s): A Leo
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