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Are there any tricks to getting over a breakup quicker>?>?
I had a horrible breakup ...I was shamed and mistreated with the only person I've ever truly loved. They don't deserve me..and are showing no interest in my life. I still want to be with them, even though I know it's no good. I obsess, but I really do want to move on. I've got big things to do in life. Are there any tricks to moving on quickly> ? I keep going back and forth between stages of grief...almost like a prisoner.
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- 9 years agoFavorite Answer
I agree with the first and second person, something to take your mind off of it is a good trick. Unfortunately, it really just boils down to, 'you will get over him when your mind is ready.' It may take a couple of days, or it might take up to a year (Like my friend, she takes a long time to get over someone, even if they weren't that involved) but one day, you're going to just wake up and be over him, really. It's a wonderful feeling when that happens, and just keep in mind that you WILL get over him. Acknowledging that he doesn't deserve you is a good step. I wish you the best of luck, and I'm letting you I've been there, and I really feel for you. I hope I helped, much love <3
- 9 years ago
I'm going through the same ordeal it sucks but the only way you can move on quickly is by not thinking about him which seems impossible but isn't don't text him don't call him nothing try to stay away from him and go out more with friends do things that will keep your mind of off him like the things that I did was go out to get together with my best friends amusement parks restaurants or you can also just tell him you treat me like crap and just take out all your build up pain hurt hate revenge on him if it is his and just make him aware of how you feel because sometimes guys forget girls have feelings to some just like to play games and i also went through stages of grief where i would think it was actually my fault Hun I Dont know you but your beautiful theirs someone out their that's perfect for you and also just try and forget the feelings try an stay away from him like me I didn't text my ex boyfriend for 6 months and took a month of controversy and picking up my phone writing a messages to him and then canceling it but in the end were good friends but it takes time to forget but theirs always a way and a way out . Also try an consult a friend psychologist someone to talk it out i talked to sister and she helped. My brother also told me this don't let your mind control you you control your mind feelings movements and he said dont forget that your human and you control who and what you are what you do where you go and also you control who you remember who you forget and its helpful to tell and talk to someone if you want to talk about it email me I Dont mind one bit lets_keep_it_a_secret_x3@yahoo.com good luck and hope i helped :/
- 9 years ago
keep yourself busy,perhaps get a new hobby,go out with your friends.trick is to keep your mind busy in other areas also do not speak to him at all the more u communicate with them the longer it will take for you to get over them.
No allison not a good idea she needs to give herself sometime by herself before she goes out and finds a new guy,and besides she is likely to end up with someone like her ex if she goes right off and finds a new guy right off as she will be looking for qualities that remind her of him.what that is called is rebound.