Best friend advice please?

My best friend has changed for the worse ever since she's dated this guy. She said that I would always come first to her, but ever since shes been with him, we've only hung out once. I told her that she seems different and it bothers me, but she said that im just jealous that she has a boyfriend and im alone. and whenever i ask if she wants to hang out, she says that she has plans with him. she just seems the total opposite now. what should i do? and also, i have a lot of issues going on and she says that shes sick of hearing about it. but when she says that she's sad or whatever, i ask her whats wrong, she said that she doesnt want to talk about it or its none of my business. before, she got mad at me for never being there for her, but when i ask her, she just gets mad at me. help please.

Jay2012-06-30T17:26:35Z

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She doesn't sound like a very good friend. I had a friend once who ignored me for a guy, and then when they broke up she came running back to me. I think you should talk to her about it, and be very polite about it. If she gets defensive about it and yells or whatever, just stay calm and be the bigger person. Let her go (at least for now). I hope I helped!

alex2012-07-01T00:27:47Z

Its the relationship war. The best friend never likes the significant other because they take your friend. Just keep trying to get her to set aside some time to chill one day, but if it doesn't happen you have to move on or try and get her to go on a double date

Abby B2012-07-01T00:25:26Z

this happens way to often :( Guys change girls. All you can do sadly is to let your friendship be. If she lashes out when you bring it up don't bring it up. When you talk inquire about her new favorite thing, he BF. Just show her you care. And if it gets too bad, just tell her how you feel and when she is ready to have friends again she can hit you up. I wish there was more you could do but you can't. Trust me, I've been in your shoes. Just be there for her. answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArcOw9i5S0cLQ7NHftJEN8rsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120630165342AA1ec9J