I like this girl in my college class, and plan to ask her out next week. I was planning on grabbing her after class, and then asking her out. What should I say when I ask her out?
some dialogue I can go along with would be great. I believe she likes me too.
So again, thanks!
apandabear
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when i was in college, guys would ask if i wanted to get coffee after class or lunch.
or around exam time, it'd be "let's study together."
it depends though. have you guys had any interaction before?
Laura
Lemme get this straight....you r in college, right?
O-kay, well, whatever's clever. Here is what I think...
The plan on asking her out right after class sounds good, first make put some more thought into planning into it.For ex.Don't plan for the typical movie-dinner date...its not just "ugh" but doesn't give her time to see what kind of person you are and maybe leaving the night at a dead end. Besides that's more for people who have been together a few weeks at the least where they are more comfortable around each other.Go for something simple and fun and sweet, that gives you the opportunity to get to know each other.A carnival, a gallery show of local artist, an amusement park. What ever you do, make is so you can either chill the whole day or just a couple for hours and still have the same effect, leaving her wanting more time with you...which is your goal, right?A nice restaurant where you get served, if you have to make reservations make sure the attire is acceptable and plan accordingly. (my second date with my husband, I had to bring a change of clothing with me since we went to a REAALLY nice restaurant, then to a very fun night at an amusement park).Be open, be honest, be spontaneously funny, be nerdy, BE YOU.Dialogue...hmmm... For that you can contact me...I had it all worked or but I couldn't add it. Yahoo answer called it an error saying the answer was too long...blah
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Good luck, kid!
If it doesn't happen, dust of and try again. if not with her, some other lucky girl will come along.
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Anonymous
Self belief is your first-class weapon... Make sure your body language concurs with what you say... If you're cozy with the drawback she will probably be too... Attractive ladies get approached 10-15 times a day, from guys observing them to randome strangers asking them out... So she is used to it... Btw... The only approach of understanding if she likes you is teasing her playfully... If she starts hitting you and teasing you back manner she likes you, as a minimum as a pal which is an effective start... But you do not wanna stay within the associates category more than a day or 2 or you'll be able to never get out of it...
Chococreampuff
Well first you should take her to a quiet place with just only you and her.
And sit down or something and start the conversation about today's class or anything to get the conversation started and get her comfortable . And somewhere along the way you confess your thoughts and feeling to her .
Anonymous
engage in the dialog first. let her get to know you better before asking her out. See if there is interest first.