Repeal of DOMA: Does this mean any two adults can be "spouses" for federal benefits?
Could you "marry" (for federal purposes) a family member? Could federal employee provide health benefits to a very sick family member? Does the repeal of DOMA make such a benefit possible?
Not sarcastic. Don't resent the repeal of DOMA. Just a simple question- *Now* can any two adults become "spouses" for federal benefits? (I'd heard that a few years ago, Hawaii allowed this situation so a mother who needed a lot of medical care could become a legal "spouse" of her adult son. Nothing about kinky activities which is kind of a taboo topic anyway. You don't ask what anyone does in their bedroom.)