How do I get over my ex?
Don't say, "time." Seriously, what can I do to get over him.
Don't say, "time." Seriously, what can I do to get over him.
Spencer
Favorite Answer
First you need to acknowledge that you both had good times. Take it as a learning experience. Don't be sad because it's over, it happened and it happened for a reason
Next, distract. As much as you might want to text, call, stalk his Facebook or whatever, don't. Go out and do things you love. Do things that make you happy. Finding ways that you are happy without someone is very important.
Lastly, when you feel ready, start dating again. See what you like and test the waters. Don't rush into anything too fast, but when you start dating again, he should be long gone out if your head. Hope this helps!
Bryan
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grrandram
Each relationship is a learning and growing experience. This one didn't work for whatever reason. You know why. But now it's over. He's gone. Holding onto those feelings are not going to bring him back or make you feel better. You have to want to move on. You have to grow up a little too. Go out with friends. Do something so you aren't moping around. The only thing you can do is move on. But it's up to you when you want to get over the hurt and start fresh.
Anonymous
Well, I think you should involve your self into other things and not concentrate on him at all. One way that I found effective was actually breaking contact with some of his close friends. That helped me not remember him too. Start making new friends and hanging out with a different group of people who aren't related to him. You can also try seeing other guys..it might help. Good luck! :)
Anonymous
Distract yourself! Don't dwell on the good times you had with your ex, remember them but don't dwell on memories. There's a difference! Focus on friends and growing friendships with others! Also just some Ben and Jerry's usually helps me.