How do I confront a girl about leading me on?

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With this particular girl, I'm about 85% sure that she is leading me on. But what if she's not? Or what if she's leading me on, but not on purpose? What I'm trying to say is, is it possible for me to hurt her feelings or make anything awkward by confronting her about this? I don't want to stop being friends, I just want her to stop confusing me, because I know she's a really nice person. She's flirty, but she's also really nice. What I really want is the nicest way to say this so that she understands that I'm not mad at her. Don't try to ask about details... It's a very... very odd situation...

Kaz · Answer

Details!! I need the details!!.... Only kidding.

Seriously though, perhaps it would be best to simply ask her about it, perhaps invite her put for a coffee somewhere, or any place where you both are alone and in a neutral area. And then use the opportunity to ask her.

Some girls can be flirty by nature and see it as harmless, not realising what they are doing. Or she is trying to hint to you that she does like you.

Either way, speculating about it won't work and will just put more doubt and confusion in your head. The only way to find out is to ask.

Good luck!

Fun2010 · Answer

Ask her out on a date, if she says no then she's leading you on. Be friendly but, eliminate all the "extra" stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

Ask her outright whether she sees a future with you and her.

How do I confront a girl about leading me on?

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