I just turned 40 and for the last few months I have been sexually active with a beautiful 19 year old girl. My friends are very jealous because of her age, looks and body. I won`t go any further into detail because I want true answers and not to be thought of as trolling. This is for real. I just want honest opinions of whether people think I am a pedophile or just lucky. I mean she is over age and will be 20 soon.
Anonymous
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It is what it is.
She's an adult now. she seems independent. she works and makes her own money. she can do what she wants and if fcking you-a 40 year old man is what she wants then so be it.
What do I care? I'm not fcking any of you.
Ivan
Whether you are or aren't a pedophile makes no difference, as long as you are both happy with each other, you are not doing anything wrong.
Raven Slight
While it is, arguably, "creepy"...Technically it isn't "pedophilia" since she is not technically a child. She is also not legally a child, and probably doesn't consider herself a child.
However, I would question whether or not she was of sound mind and rational thought when the relationship began. If not, then it would necessarily be a form of statutory rape. Which, while not pedophilia, is still illegal.
Anonymous
no you are not a pedophile. It's a big age difference to me but whatever floats your boat.
SupremeKnowledge
If you are encouraging her to go to school/work/hang with her friends then its fine. If you are a creepy old guy trying to keep her locked up away from everyone else, then no, its not.