I am 40 and have been doing it with a 19 year old girl, am I a pedophile?

It is what it is.

She's an adult now. she seems independent. she works and makes her own money. she can do what she wants and if fcking you-a 40 year old man is what she wants then so be it.

What do I care? I'm not fcking any of you.

Whether you are or aren't a pedophile makes no difference, as long as you are both happy with each other, you are not doing anything wrong.

While it is, arguably, "creepy"...Technically it isn't "pedophilia" since she is not technically a child. She is also not legally a child, and probably doesn't consider herself a child.

However, I would question whether or not she was of sound mind and rational thought when the relationship began. If not, then it would necessarily be a form of statutory rape. Which, while not pedophilia, is still illegal.

no you are not a pedophile. It's a big age difference to me but whatever floats your boat.

If you are encouraging her to go to school/work/hang with her friends then its fine. If you are a creepy old guy trying to keep her locked up away from everyone else, then no, its not.

oh dang you are definly a troll don't say drake suck

that's seriously gross. she's young enough to be your daughter and you're having sex with her. I'm sorry but that's just creepy

Yes you are a pedophile.

is she prepubescent no then you aren't a paedo