How do I get rid of this guy?

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I'm not in the habit of dating losers, but made the mistake of dating this one (for about 3 months).  He lied (A LOOOOT), stole from me, was controlling, negative, mean, and forceful.  He even forced sex on me once.  He was a drug addict and never wanted to do anything the right way as if being honest/good was for suckers.  I felt I needed to ease away from him (cause he was cra-zy) until I learned I was pregnant.  I got away immediately and haven't looked back.  The day I left, he threatened my life so I filed an exparte and it still hasn't been served but he learned about it because the police left a note on my door about it (which seems completely illogical.)  He'll call several times a day just a few minutes apart, text 15 times in a row, etc.  I haven't talked to him in months, but he DEMANDS to know what I want to do with our "relationship".  He's said he'd leave many times but hasn't.  I told him to go many times before, but he hasn't.  He says if I don't want him he'll sign over his rights to the baby, and I hope that's true because he REALLY doesn't need to influence a young mind.  I found him to be one of the worst people I've ever met and dangerous.  He admitted to committing a lot of violent crimes to me and treated me and others around me just awfully.  Since I've been gone, most of his texts/emails/voicemails are so doggone positive and loving that I can't really use them as evidence.  He knows what he's doing and still comes around my house.  What can I do?

Anonymous · Answer

Keep everything he sends you. And record when he called the time and what he said. Tell him you and him are done and if your scared go to the police. Tell them your scared show them how many times he tries to get a hold of you. Tell the cops your done and you splut up with him. Don't go anywhere by yourself that way if he tries anything you have a witness. Stress how scared you are to the cops. Let them know about him forcing you to have intercourse. He has done this to himself all you need to do is be a strong woman i know u can be and make the cops listen. I have an ex who did tge same thing but i never got pregnat and was much worse. He would beat me everyday for a minimum of three hours and would sometimes last all night. He also lit me on fire and i spent three weeks in the hispital. You have the chance to do something about it before it is to late. Make the cops listen if you have to show them how scared you are. Get your parents involved they can help you too. Best of luck

Adair · Answer

Thank you for the encouragement.  I've read this more than once!

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