Okay so I have two questions. One is about condoms. I always wondered, how the heck is the semen able to leave the penis with a condom on? Even with a reservior tip, i cant see how it theres any room, and the tip will get smashed down during sex anyway. I cringe at the thought of the semen not being able to leave the penis upon ejaculation. Can someone explain this? Also, I have a question about pulling out. This seems to be a common method for contraception, but doesnt it hurt?? I cringe at the thought of just taking the penis out and stopping right as i climax. When i ejaculate, i have to continue thrusting until im completely done, i cant just stop. I dont know if im just weird like that or what, but I dont know how people do that. Can someone explain this as well?
Meemski2016-02-14T12:00:04Z
I am really confused about your question. SO I'm going to answer the best I can. When you ejaculate it will never just stay inside your penis regardless if you have a condom or not unless you don't ejaculate. When you ejaculate into a condom your semen will remain in the tip of the condom and it will balloon and fill up if you have a LOT of semen. Usually you shouldn't continue to have sex once you ejaculate with a condom, or put another one on because it make leak out the sides or become weak once it's full with semen. As well as the pull out method isn't painful, guys just simply pull out before they know they are going to ejaculate and finish themselves off by jacking off into a tissue, blanket, or their girlfriend (if she doesn't mind). It's not painful at all. The only time you'll experience pain during any of this is if your condom doesnt fit, or you have an STD.
Get yourself some condoms and try them out. every guy needs to practice using them anyway before ever having sex. Once you try a condom yourself you'll see how it is no big deal for the semen to squirt out and around the head -whether there is a reservoir or not on the end- they are too small anyway. But during thrusting the head is not smooshed up against the cervix so plenty of room for you to squirt. And pulling out with a condom on is just stupid. Whole point is to have sex like natural sex but with the protection of a condom. So no reason to pull out if wearing a condom. Like going to a movie and leaving in the final 3 minutes.
It seems like you cringe a lot at the thought of sex.
During any one ejaculation, about 3 to 10 mL of semen comes out. The latex tip can hold that much fluid, and it even expands a little as necessary. The only way that semen is not going to come out of the penis is if the penis had ejaculated very soon earlier, and the previous semen is starting to dry on the tip of the penis. This would prevent the next bunch of semen from coming out.
As for the pull-out method? Does it hurt when you pull out? No of course not, what do you think we are cats? Cats have barbed penises, which catch onto the wall of the vagina of the female cat, and when the male cat withdraws, there is considerable pain. Humans don't have barbed penises. If you withdraw just before you come, then the only thing that'll be hurt is your natural desire to come inside her.
Do you know what scientists call people who rely on the pull-out method for contraception? Answer below.
As far as the condoms go, even if you pull them on too tightly, they are made of latex and can expand to hold your load. And scientists call the people who rely on pulling out "parents". It's an old but very poor method. It is even mentioned in the Bible. Google "Onan".
A condom is a simple closed tube,, the penis slips into the condom, which has a teat at the end, which is just big by design to collect ejaculated seminal fluid. since the condom is a skin tight fit then there is little chance that seminal fluid can leak from the condom, providing its a tight fit.